Topic: What do I do?
Lookingfortheone1068's photo
Mon 12/10/07 08:42 AM
I dont know what to do. There is a girl that I like on here a lot and now she wont talk to me. Shes mad at me for some reason and Idk y. :( SHe wont respond to my emails or my ims. what do i do? :(

dcrdnk's photo
Mon 12/10/07 08:44 AM
don't chase dude noway noway

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Mon 12/10/07 08:45 AM

don't chase dude noway noway


I agree, all it does is inflate their ego and destroy yours flowerforyou

soffit's photo
Mon 12/10/07 08:46 AM
MOVE ON noway noway

Lookingfortheone1068's photo
Mon 12/10/07 08:46 AM
I guess I'll have to. Just liked her a lot. was even going to take a trip all the way to Cali next summer to see her before I started college.

johncarl's photo
Mon 12/10/07 08:47 AM
if they want to talk they will.

alex4nder's photo
Mon 12/10/07 08:47 AM
Yea, you'll never get a girl by being on her balls. Tell her how you feel and show her you care. (even some girls are more attracted when you just blow them off). It's the internet and there are millions of girls on here!

LightVoice's photo
Mon 12/10/07 08:50 AM
Let it go.... she knows where to find you flowerforyou

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Mon 12/10/07 08:52 AM
Right now your first priority should be to keep the law on your side. If you continue with your current behavior, she will see you as a stalker if she already doesn't.

Calm down and cease all communication with her. You blew it. Sorry, it's the truth. After you do this, learn how to make girls comfortable, man! I can tell by just your few TYPED sentences that you telegraph too much interest to girls you find attractive and it creeps them out. Play it cool and drop the depressed, needy, "nice guy" romeo act. I used "nice guy" as an adjective there, by the way. Just clarifying myself.

She's mad at you because she's just annoyed by you. You try to communicate with her more than she's willing to invest in the communication between you two. You failed to build attraction, as in you failed to create desire. Simple economics, man. You increased the supply so that brought down her demand.

Know that this girl is not "the one." There are plenty of other girls out there that you can share the feeling of love with, thoroughly enjoying every moment and every aspect of it.

Good luck and don't get a f*cking restraining order...

DebbieJT's photo
Mon 12/10/07 08:52 AM
its usually the signal they are not interested hun when they ignore like that best to move on:smile:

Lookingfortheone1068's photo
Mon 12/10/07 08:53 AM
Thanks to the people who gave me nice advice. To those who are rude, bite me. But all in all I just deleted her off my friends list. Thats the first step lol!

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Mon 12/10/07 08:55 AM

Thanks to the people who gave me nice advice. To those who are rude, bite me. But all in all I just deleted her off my friends list. Thats the first step lol!

Did I come off as rude?
If I did, I apologize but you really should understand the points I'm trying to make here, for your own benefit.

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Mon 12/10/07 09:08 AM
women are like stop signs, there is one on every corner.........move forward bud

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Mon 12/10/07 09:10 AM

Thanks to the people who gave me nice advice. To those who are rude, bite me. But all in all I just deleted her off my friends list. Thats the first step lol!

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You never cese to amaze me.At times you seam like a fairly nice person,Than you turn into a big jacka$$.Seek halp!!explode

wildchic41's photo
Mon 12/10/07 09:10 AM
Time to move on.....You only got 1 life.....live it

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Mon 12/10/07 09:12 AM
i'm not being rude to you, just being honest.........if the talking stopped, there will be someone else to pick up the conversations with you.........be happy man......bigsmile

JazzieJoHanna's photo
Mon 12/10/07 09:28 AM
Move on! Are you sure shes even online? Something had her get uninterested!

lilith401's photo
Mon 12/10/07 09:37 AM
I'd have to say your expressing too much interest did not throw her off. If she was equally as interested, her responses would've been in kind. You'll find that there aer many, many people on this site, and others, that think it is okay to simply ignore someone without replying or saying you are not a good fit. Keep looking for someone more emotionally mature. On the other hand, you never know what is going on in someone's life. Just focus on the here and now and try not to play "shoulda woulda coulda".

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Mon 12/10/07 09:43 AM

Just focus on the here and now and try not to play "shoulda woulda coulda".

interesting...David Wygant recently released a newsletter talking about this. Are you a subscriber by any chance?


And for the record... I was right lol
someone special sent me a message...