i am not going to fnd any girls I am just going to relax and let them come to me

Yes...good idea.

dont' give up. Enjoy yourself. Even if you don't find that special person make alot of friends. There are alot of great people here.

Oh kater...I love that pic..Christmas Story is so awesome.

A VERY WISE choice,,"Grasshopper".......

i love it too..that's why i posted it.

katertots how u been :) how someone hey let u guys know found somone too love the picture

thank you..and congrats

yw an thanks

that's what i did

Nothing wrong with that. Just continue posting on the forums, be yourself and if someone catches your eye, send them a message.

You know, wanting a girlfriend is ok but you still need to be able to fly solo and be comfortable with that. Girlfriends can improve your life but don't make them your life, make sense?

And don't settle for just anything. If someone has characteristics that bother you, perhaps keep them as a friend or if the characteristics are too much of a turn off, simply thank them for their time and move on.