Now nothing against all men but there are a few players out there and I'm not saying that there aren't female ones either. But I found a website to check men out if you are suspicious or just curious. Dontdatehimgirl.com I'm sure there is one out there for men to check on women too.

There is another one..womansavers.com......

what the hell???? no wonder i can't get a date......

If I only took the advice about my girlfriends from their exes I don't think I'd ever date. It's one thing if there's a long list of people who say the same thing about someone but if there's only one person, who's to say that that lady isn't a nut job.

If I had a bad date with someone or a bad experience with someone I still wouldn't go around smearing their name online, seems distasteful to me.

Really how about if they were physically or mentally abusive, it's not about smearing names, it's about being safe, and as women looking out for one another.

Abusive behavior is different, the OP mentions players not abusers. I've never been on those sites so I can't say if they only talk about abusers but I'm betting no. Some women are really vindictive and if they have a bad breakup or something with a guy they'll go out of their way to smear him. Some guys do the same with the women they date, once emotions get involved people just aren't as objective or reasonable as they should be. To only listen to one side is close minded.

I dated a girl who I felt was a bit of a gold digger, she never wanted to pay for anything and would complain that I'd cook for her but wasn't taking her to expensive restaurants (I just don't have that kind of money) or buy gifts. She probably thought I was cheap and wanted to sleep with her without "treating her right". 2 sides to every story.

Yes there are 2 sides to every story, actually 3, yours, mine, and the truth. These sites are set up for abusive men, men who are married and don't tell the other women that, and men that tell a woman she is the one and only when he is really banging everything in town. Do women get vindictive, I am sure that some do. This is a resource, not an end all be all of the dating world. It is what it is, and it's about time, we ladies worked together instead of against ourselves to put an end to ridiculous behaviour.

YES it is,,,BUT WOMEN can be married or seperated and lie also.
TRUTH!!

Absolutly, but it's not the discussion we are having, I don't deny that women can be just as evil, and hell even more so...I mean we are smarter...and we have boobs. These (the sites listed above) are simply tools if you have doubts about the men you are dating.

oh god im almost afraid to check that site.
you women are just evil. just plain evil.