Topic: e-mailing people
JRod6119's photo
Sat 12/08/07 12:16 PM
Is one thing to e-mail somebody and get no response, but what if you loose interest in the person you e-mailing to. what do most of you do, do you stop chating with them,or let them down easy. This person is really full of them self, she completely deffrent, then she describe herself on her profile. has anyone been throu this before.

IndnPrncs's photo
Sat 12/08/07 12:23 PM
So many peope are different than they describe themselves.. Sometimes emails just start to slow down when there is not much said in the responses or no response at all will make them stop or begin to slow down then eventually stop.. The other thing that can happen is bringing up being friends and then there is no obligation for more than an email when it's possible but that's only if it's acceptable for both involved... Hope this helps... :smile:

JRod6119's photo
Sat 12/08/07 12:33 PM
Thank you IndnPrncs, for the response.

no photo
Sat 12/08/07 12:35 PM
Interesting point to bring up. I've tried to establish friendships with at least a couple of people, through emailing and it just didn't work. And I'm not sure why. If someone intentionally misleads another, that's simply wrong, though.

thunderbear1967's photo
Sat 12/08/07 12:38 PM
people tend to stop being on their best behavior once they feel comfortable with someone. I cant tell you what to do but I can tell you what i would do I would be honest with them and let them know that they are a great friend, nothing more. If they get mad I did what I feel is right or they can respect my feelings and I have one more friend

Tameka's photo
Sat 12/08/07 12:56 PM
i would say that you dont have to stop talking completely. check in occasionally. but dont keep the emails going all day/night...

JRod6119's photo
Sat 12/08/07 01:26 PM
Thank you all, you all made a good point.