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admit it Fade,you're just a playa   
Call an ace an ace eh dude?
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admit it Fade,you're just a playa
Call an ace an ace eh dude?
yeah wait,what's that supposed to mean? 
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well im wondering...... do u let them both know? that u date others? if so..... that is not playing.... thats being truthful.... and i think its just u havent found the right person yet..... 
I always let guys know if I'm talking to others .. even if one stands out more than the others .... and I tell that one exactly that. But especially on line? Until I meet someone in person I NEVER EVER put my life on hold. EVAAAAAAAAAAAAH 
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admit it Fade,you're just a playa
Call an ace an ace eh dude?
yeah wait,what's that supposed to mean?
Exactly what it says
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Maybe Ms. Fade & I are similar. I am not looking for any SINGULAR relationship. Won't commit to any ONE person, like my freedom & being able to flirt freely. I Am waiting for my kids to move home; 6 yrs.; & then may look at things different. I WANT to pass my home on to my son, too much blood, sweat & tears in it. Best yrs. of my life were here with Gwen, her daughter & my son. Want my grandkids to experience living in a park. All of my present wants, say "NO LTR." Sound familar Fade? Well Sage, probably different. I'm very hesitant about committment is all.
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we as men know when you ladies have a "back up plan"you can just feel when someone is not giving it there all...and are divided in love and life...i have went through this for the last almost 5 years even catching her in the act 4 times...finally had the balls to say no more..there has to be decent weman out there somewhere in this great big world and i am gonna find me one!
Like I said, not talking about bein' in a relationship and stringing THAT guy along. When I'm IN a relationship I'm not playin anything, especially their heart. AND I DO give it my all...I'm very passionate about life and love. Just been on the fence a bit is all ...............
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Yes yes, always keep a backup. In the military we always say the best laid plans change as soon as the first shot is fired.And so it goes with relationships, unless of course you're married, then you're in prison and the warden makes all the plans for you!
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Edited by
Jtevans
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Sat 12/08/07 03:03 PM
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well i wouldn't call myself an Ace,i'm more like a King
 
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Yes yes, always keep a backup. In the military we always say the best laid plans change as soon as the first shot is fired.And so it goes with relationships, unless of course you're married, then you're in prison and the warden makes all the plans for you!
See!! No wonder I love military sooooo much. They are right up there under God in my book.
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well i wouldn't call myself an Ace,i'm more like a King
uhhhhhhhhh actually it's not all about YOU JT
I was talkin me.
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Pearl Jam - Better Man
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There's nothing wrong with having a backup plan. You don't think men do it all the time, too? If someone's not in a committed relationship, they should be free to socialize with as many people as they want. Just never, ever have 2 run into each other. That gets very tricky.
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^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Thanks RS .. I knew honest women would give honest answers.
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ok ok... so my first post was not serious....
You have to do what's best for YOU! 'back up plan' sounds like a good idea.... I just may want to use it one day, but for now... everyone is on the friends level....until I am ready to take it further 
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I think its very clever to have it like this. BUT if you become "intimate" then I think it changes the plan. I then think its more of a committed relationship.
I think some men do this, why can't women? I myself have never done this and I have always wondered why. I just never felt comfortable dating more then one person at a time. BUT I think I am about ready to try it..haha!! Now I just have to find the victims
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I think what you describe is called 'dating'....nothing wrong with that....and here in Los Angeles it is wise to have a 'backup plan' cause your probably gonna need it....
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^^ Hey Bluesky .. I was born and raised in Los Angeles
I knew I was thinkin' 'big city' in all this craziness.
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Judy, if your "back up plan" makes sense to you, then by all means do it. There is nothing wrong with dating more than one person at a time, how else will you know which one is right for you? This doesn't make you a player as long as no one is being lead to believe they are teh only one you are dating.
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are we really dating or attempting to find someone if we "keep our options" open? This to me means you have no loyalty and not to be harsh but i would agree that in any "relationship" there must be time invested, this would even start at the dating phase. If your not giving your time into getting to know someone then i could easily imagine you going through men after men.
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I totally agree with you, Fade2Black,
Now you women should quit whining when we men do the same thing. |
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