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| Topic: Men who immediately ask whether I have kids | |
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It's possible that they ask right away about kids because ANY kids are the deal-breaker and if the answer is "yes", they'll move on. But nowadays more than ever before, there is the possibility that ADULT children (and possibly THEIR children) may have to come back into the parents' household, due to losing a job, breaking up with their partner with no place to go, other serious financial hardship, etc. But them coming back into the household may STILL be the deal-breaker to some. There's a;so *this*..which really doesn't apply to the original topic, but relevant to what Mike6615 said. Many older people are having their kids move in with them to help tsake care of them, or one or the other parent so they don't need to go into a nursing home.. Just having someone there at night is comforting to someone who is not in good health. So, for me..a guy over 50 who was living with a parent who needed them there..that would not be a deal breaker.. (most people won't date someone who lives with their parents.) It's a hard job..one I admire anyone for doing. Very true. From my daughter’s experience with her ex he went to work everyday while she stayed home with a baby and her very sick mother-in-law who had Alzheimer’s and should have been in a home. The rest of the family left it to her to bath, change and feed her. I would not want to do what she had to do. |
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