i have a question, there are many guys that dont or know how to accept the issue of your own personal health issue, even though they may have gone through it before with there loved ones, how can you tell them you just want them to be by your side for security and if they dont want to be by yourside for other reasons.... i have many health issue and im just wanting someone to be there for me for emotional support and to understand where im comming from, i have met very few men that will want to go through that with me and i thought i was talking to someone that was willing to be there but he went through the same with his ex and he doesnt think he can do it again.. well i understand that, but im not the type of person to put myself down, im a fighter at heart..as well i would want to be emotional supportive towards them if they were going through the same thing i was going through, at least they would understand my feelings

You are not alone, baby.....

now where did that word health comes from???--oh-- yeah my
momma stuff me with with vitamins since i was little-------------does that count??

if the person didnt have any health issue and they eventually got married or what ever, and the issue of health came about and that person ended up running away it shows more that there scared to confront there fears and not knowing how ot deal with anything else... it would show how chicken they really were as in not facing reality and truth.... as in marriage faces forever do us part down to sickeness and health... if that person cant accept that, then what you have to deal with life when ever it comes down to

Hello, and MY ANSWER would be to let ANY MAN know YOUR situration "FULLY" if YOU want HIM in YOUR LIFE...
Then YOU and HIM "START" as this KNOWING RELATIONSHIP, not SOMETHING that comes out LATER in your friendships..

I have a big heart and love people no matter, who,what, or size or age. But, if YOUR just wanting a friend and NOTHING sexual with or from them, then "THAT" has to be talked about up front and see their thoughts on that?
But if its just a friendship and NO CLOSER realtionship then that to should be cool if you BOTH are AWARE going in...

Limitations, do have bring about problems if THEY are KEPT from the other.. I wish YOU Good luck. And hope YOU will find the right person..

i dont hide my health issue from anyone, i just cant do that... i feel they would need to know just in case a issue came up, and i dont want them to feel its there fault when its not at all...i want someone to be there for me by my side emotionally and understand where im coming from i dont want others to take pity upon me or to judge me for my problems... if they can accept me for my issue then that would be awsome and i can accept theres as well... i just want someone to be emotionally supportive and be there for both

so----i'm a healthy boy----yayyyyy!!!!

I think it takes a VERY SPECIAL person to except another person who might have BIG HEALTH issue's, like terminal, bed riden,
blind. THESE would be to GRAVE for me to "WANT" to get involved with, I could and would be their friend, but to "THINK" relationship, I know WE would'nt work, because of my job and their NEEDS.
Someone who just has a Partial disability could work, but it still might LIMIT the LIFE-STYLE of the one NOT disabled.
And it would ALL depend on if THEY COULD HANDLE THAT!
Thats my thoughts anyway...

damn--let me find my cane---

shadowdog, even with your cane i would be honored to meet you.... my daughter dad is as well disabled as he is declared legally blind and i had no problems with him as he was able to find his way around. i dont have any problems as long as that person can as well be emotionally supportive