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CaRisLOVE
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Fri 12/07/07 01:39 PM
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(sorry if this has been posted before...)
and when we come arround they ignore us or push us away? like do they say this just for some attention, and then they say no real guys and honest sweet gentleman talk to them? like its kinda an oxymoron, and yea this has now been on my mind i mean if girl doesnt like how a guy is they would be straight up and just tell them dont have to lead us on or something anyone else feel this way? |
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completly. Mind games arnt fun
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 Some guys do it too, such is life...
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well i for sure aint gonna fall for them
and if they have to play games then they arent real to me and not worth it i dont need to talk to some girl just cause she talkin to me out of pity |
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dats why sometimes i just ignore
even if one wants to know me i will just ignore them cause i rather be liked by someone who is at least real and really means it from her heart or actually has some compasison |
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ehm...how can someone get to know you if you ignore them, that does not make sense...
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(sorry if this has been posted before...) and when we come arround they ignore us or push us away? like do they say this just for some attention, and then they say no real guys and honest sweet gentleman talk to them? like its kinda an oxymoron, and yea this has now been on my mind i mean if girl doesnt like how a guy is they would be straight up and just tell them dont have to lead us on or something anyone else feel this way? thank god i ain't like that..................here's a thinker.......why is it when guys say they're not particular how a girl looks, yet they see a woman like me and run? Why do big gals turn guys away? |
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they also want to be attracted to them, not simply the honest or sweet part. so the answer is not that shes a liar, its that shes lookin for honest, kind AND someone shes attracted to. if its not a match its not a match, its nothing to take personally or to get upset about. you may well be honest and a great guy/gal but if there is no chemistry man, game over. sure attraction and chemistry but then if this is true , they would of said it first than just lead a guy on |
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there must be an attraction some chemestry or no matter how real you are its no sale
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ehm...how can someone get to know you if you ignore them, that does not make sense... dats why they dont get to know me i rather ignore at times |
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(sorry if this has been posted before...) and when we come arround they ignore us or push us away? like do they say this just for some attention, and then they say no real guys and honest sweet gentleman talk to them? like its kinda an oxymoron, and yea this has now been on my mind i mean if girl doesnt like how a guy is they would be straight up and just tell them dont have to lead us on or something anyone else feel this way? thank god i ain't like that..................here's a thinker.......why is it when guys say they're not particular how a girl looks, yet they see a woman like me and run? Why do big gals turn guys away? cause some humans are shallow girls do tha same hun im just stating in this thread i aint gonna be fooled by one who says they want a real guy or real man ., some just lie |
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well she has to get to know you first before she knows if theres chemistry some do and still wasted my times and it happens to other guys as well im not just speakin on behalf of me im speakin on behalf of every guy who been through this |
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just cuz they dont choose you does not mean they are lying wether they dont choose me i dont care im just know some lie for their attention and i know they hurt other guys as well |
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so like i said before
dats why i ignore some girls so i dont have to feel bad to know some girls dont want to know me when i want to them them especially whena girl actually hits on me and actually wants to know me, i will totally ignore them no matter how much they really wanted to know me |
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and i truly dnt like when girls actually use us guys for intel also, and just their stupid acts
its nice to play hero and be there for them but some girls are just not worth it |
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unless i misunderstand, here is the scenario i think you are referring to: you are in a bar, some girl hits on you, and after spending time with you decides there is no chemistry so she moves on. what im hearing from you is that you think that makes her a liar about her interest in you. what im saying is she truly was interested but determined that there was no chemistry so she had to move on. Its not that you are in any way lacking, you may well have the qualities she is looking for but the chemistry is important too. did i misunderstand? nah its more different than dat and unlike all other girls tryin to understand they cant i havent been in dat time of rejection before it's more like me just wasting my time on a girl who i thought was worth to know so from dat effect i sometimes will inore girls who actually show a hint of wanting to know me |
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its not rejection
just how i waste my times to talk to tha wrong girls and i said some other than dat, this topic is never worth to talk about i'll just leave it to dat k thnx 
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hay, i cant leave with fewer posts than you. 
ah yea hun i love ya too? lol 
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so basically caris, its your own fault. You pick the wrong girls.........bah Im getting bored of whiner threads.......
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so basically caris, its your own fault. You pick the wrong girls.........bah Im getting bored of whiner threads.......
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