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Topic: What would you change?
actionlynx's photo
Wed 09/26/18 09:42 AM
Things I might change --

Smoking -- I quit, but started again
Where I live -- to be closer
Exercise -- many reasons, some of which overlap
How I dress -- not that I don't dress nice, but I'll change the colors I wear if it makes her happy and if I like the colors myself


Those are just a few things. Some of them I actually have done in the past, such as the exercise and the clothes.

I_love_bluegrass's photo
Wed 09/26/18 10:11 AM
Edited by I_love_bluegrass on Wed 09/26/18 10:12 AM


Trying to change another person is instant death for a relationship. But if you found someone you felt was incredible, would you be willing to change?

If so, what would you change? Why would you do it?

Finally, how do you think changing yourself would impact the relationship?


There are many things I would be willing to change, but only because I'm confident in my ability to adapt. However, most of those changes are dependent upon whether they bring me closer to being the man that *I* want to be, not my partner. That can be a double-edged sword. So I consider both sides first.

How about you?




Im me, take me, love me, hate me, kill me... I'm me. We are compatible or not. Plain, simple.

This is only for a serious relationship... I can change to accommodate a friend for a bit though, not a lifetime.



I'll compromise on/ change some things for a friend....but that all depends on what it is.

Because I am not sleeping with them, or sharing the same house.....it's not as big a deal.

no photo
Fri 09/28/18 01:25 AM
From your words,I come out a conclusion that you are precious about this relationship.You say you can change yourself for a better relationship,but in fact it doesn't have a effect on relationship,but just for youself.But why you don't change to what your partner hopes you to be?For me,I won't change for anyone because I jus love myself.

actionlynx's photo
Fri 09/28/18 08:42 AM
Methinks someone be reading too much into things.

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