i'm 23, i just me this older lady who has a 11 year old son. i met her the other day when she asked me for help to rearrange her sons room and move some furniture. she wants to hang out but every time we agree on a day she cancels on me through email. i'm supposed to go to her place tonight to hang out after she puts her son to bed. i called her when i got out of class and she didn't answer left her a msg. my question is does she really want to hang out, and keeps cancelling because of her son or she just doesnt want to.

LEave a message and wait and see if she calls back. Let her make the move...if she doesn't...well.......

well.... maybe you should just back off for a while. If she wants to hang out, let her bring it up. Don't pressure her.

Move on. Don't wait.

Well, to me it sounds like she's avoiding you, whatever the reason is. I'd back off and see if you hear from her.

What I thought when I read this is she got you to help move furnitire for her, so if the next time you hear from here she wants you to move furniture or perform some other 'chore' for her, I'd be suspicious of her motives for this friendship.

dont talk to her,stay away if she really likes u or wants to be around u she will call u,if not oh well move on aint worth waiting on someone who dont want u to be around

Well, to defend the single mom a bit, it is tough when you have kids sometimes, stuff happens when you least expect it. That being said, only you can decide if she's worth it or not. Have you considered talking to her about it? Might help to clear things up.

next time you plan to meet, don't read your e-mail and don't call her. Just show up. Maybe she backs off from a case of sudden shyness. See what happens. I get attacks of shyness. I'd rather you show up. Takes the pressure off me.

"princess" is a scarey shoe to fill. Just a heads up!

I agree with this. Sounds to me like she needed you for something, then said something nice to you like hooking up, and now is avoiding you. I mean....first giveaway is the email cancellations. If she was into you, she would go and apologize. Plus, I mean, if she gives you the line that her dog got sick, yet she has no dog...I would be suspicious. Back off and wait and see bro.

Let her make the move, if she really want's to
hang out with you then she will call, but don't wait
long maybe a week then move on,you will find the
right one,give it time...

~~SHE IS JUST PLAYING A GAME WITH U~~ SHE WANTS U TO BE AVAILABLE AT HER CONVIENENCE, FIND ANOTHER FRIEND TO HANG OUT WITH, DON'T CALL HER ANYMORE AND NEXT THING U KNOW SHE WILL BE CALLING U~~SHE NEEDS TO STOP USING HER SON AS AN EXCUSE~~