Topic: " Cyber Love....Is It Real?"
Basha's photo
Wed 09/05/18 10:39 PM
Yes!

EyeAmYourHost39's photo
Thu 09/06/18 09:01 AM
Soulfie......

You make a great point

EyeAmYourHost39's photo
Thu 09/06/18 09:03 AM
Stuball63

Lol why you say no

I_love_bluegrass's photo
Thu 09/06/18 09:44 AM
Edited by I_love_bluegrass on Thu 09/06/18 09:45 AM

Nope..not real at all. neither is cyber sex . Love takes contact. Love take building a real relationship
Love takes interaction over a period of time. You need to see the person at their best. And their worst . Their quirks. Strengths, and their shortcomings
You have to love them at 5pm..and 5am
Can't to that on the web


Interesting.

I guess all those people that corresponded during WW2, and got married once he was out of the service (and many stayed married for decades)...that was all made up?

There was a huge letter writing campaign back then...women sent soldiers they didn't know letters....because it kept up morale.

I_love_bluegrass's photo
Thu 09/06/18 09:49 AM

First, they way I figure it, based on Tinder Stats (the one that started the swipe business, or at leas popularized it) us guys only have about a 20% chance of finding someone there vs about 80% of meeting someone in the flesh. The gals have got their pick of us guys online to the point we'd have to make it a part-time job to 'scatter-shot" in hopes of even getting to talk to someone for a few messages at least, let alone having a one out of a hundred or so first replies.



Ok gee....another guy thinking we women get bombarded with messages, and that we can have our pick.

Bull.

Once you take the scammers out of the equation, we don't get any more replies that you guys do.

EyeAmYourHost39's photo
Thu 09/06/18 10:13 AM
RockGnome,

oh wow help me understand it...

EyeAmYourHost39's photo
Thu 09/06/18 10:13 AM
RockGnome,

oh wow help me understand it...

EyeAmYourHost39's photo
Thu 09/06/18 12:47 PM
ToTage,

I think you right Asia is Americas biggest technology supplier...

EyeAmYourHost39's photo
Thu 09/06/18 12:49 PM
Eric22T,

I love your comments keep posting!

no photo
Thu 09/06/18 12:50 PM


First, they way I figure it, based on Tinder Stats (the one that started the swipe business, or at leas popularized it) us guys only have about a 20% chance of finding someone there vs about 80% of meeting someone in the flesh. The gals have got their pick of us guys online to the point we'd have to make it a part-time job to 'scatter-shot" in hopes of even getting to talk to someone for a few messages at least, let alone having a one out of a hundred or so first replies.



Ok gee....another guy thinking we women get bombarded with messages, and that we can have our pick.

Bull.

Once you take the scammers out of the equation, we don't get any more replies that you guys do.


Amen and if we do it's from Buffalo Bill wannabes

EyeAmYourHost39's photo
Thu 09/06/18 12:51 PM
QuintupleB,


You very knowledgably about music ......very good

EyeAmYourHost39's photo
Thu 09/06/18 12:56 PM
I_Love_Bluegrass

Welcome I love your comments keep posting.!

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Thu 09/06/18 01:17 PM
I'm old fashioned, and know this exists



Radar Love


~~~Golden Earring


I've been drivin' all night, my hand's wet on the wheel
There's a voice in my head that drives my heel
It's my baby callin', says I need you here
And it's a half past four and I'm shiftin' gear
When she is lonely and the longing gets too much
She sends a cable comin' in from above
Don't need no phone at all

We've got a thing that's called radar love
We've got a wave in the air, radar love
The radio is playing some forgotten song
Brenda Lee's comin' on strong

The road has got me hypnotized
And I'm speedin' into a new sunrise
When I get lonely and I'm sure I've had enough
She sends her comfort comin' in from above

We don't need no letter at all
We've got a thing that's called radar love
We've got a light in the sky, radar love

No more speed, I'm almost there
Gotta keep cool now, gotta take care
Last car to pass, here I go

And the line of cars drove down real slow
And the radio played that forgotten song
Brenda Lee's comin' on strong
And the newsman sang his same song
Oh one more radar lover gone

When I get lonely and I'm sure I've had enough
She sends her comfort comin' in from above
We don't need no letter at all

We've got a thing that's called radar love
We've got a light in the sky

We've got a thing that's called radar love
We've got a thing that's called radar love




Songwriters: Barry Hay / George Kooymans
Radar Love lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC



QuintupleB's photo
Thu 09/06/18 03:12 PM
Edited by QuintupleB on Thu 09/06/18 03:15 PM


First, they way I figure it, based on Tinder Stats (the one that started the swipe business, or at leas popularized it) us guys only have about a 20% chance of finding someone there vs about 80% of meeting someone in the flesh. The gals have got their pick of us guys online to the point we'd have to make it a part-time job to 'scatter-shot" in hopes of even getting to talk to someone for a few messages at least, let alone having a one out of a hundred or so first replies.



Ok gee....another guy thinking we women get bombarded with messages, and that we can have our pick.

Bull.

Once you take the scammers out of the equation, we don't get any more replies that you guys do.



Amen and if we do it's from Buffalo Bill wannabes


Thanks for correcting me. The general consensus on the net from so called experts (and those associated with specific sites) tend to say this... alot. Without hearing the voice of someone else, it's not difficult to assume that's the way it is.

Rock's photo
Thu 09/06/18 03:22 PM

RockGnome,

oh wow help me understand it...


Since you asked twice, I'll be glad to help.


Love with someone you've never met, and do not
know in person, can be nothing more than fantasy.
Wishful thinking.

It isn't real, until it's an 'in person' thing.


no photo
Thu 09/06/18 03:42 PM


RockGnome,

oh wow help me understand it...


Since you asked twice, I'll be glad to help.


Love with someone you've never met, and do not
know in person, can be nothing more than fantasy.
Wishful thinking.

It isn't real, until it's an 'in person' thing.



true words^^^^ until you get to face to face it is more a projection from you than a truly reciproicated feeling

mzrosie's photo
Thu 09/06/18 04:25 PM



RockGnome,

oh wow help me understand it...


Since you asked twice, I'll be glad to help.


Love with someone you've never met, and do not
know in person, can be nothing more than fantasy.
Wishful thinking.

It isn't real, until it's an 'in person' thing.



true words^^^^ until you get to face to face it is more a projection from you than a truly reciproicated feeling


I agree with RockGnome and eric.

Until you meet face to face, share a kiss that sends electricity all over your body, embrace each other and feel the warmth of each other's bodies, look at each other's eyes, see each other's smile, hold each other's hands..

then this relationship or love is not real. It's all fantasy.

my two cents.
happy flowerforyou

Riverspirit1111's photo
Thu 09/06/18 04:52 PM




RockGnome,

oh wow help me understand it...


Since you asked twice, I'll be glad to help.


Love with someone you've never met, and do not
know in person, can be nothing more than fantasy.
Wishful thinking.

It isn't real, until it's an 'in person' thing.



true words^^^^ until you get to face to face it is more a projection from you than a truly reciproicated feeling


I agree with RockGnome and eric.

Until you meet face to face, share a kiss that sends electricity all over your body, embrace each other and feel the warmth of each other's bodies, look at each other's eyes, see each other's smile, hold each other's hands..

then this relationship or love is not real. It's all fantasy.

my two cents.
happy flowerforyou



Having had experience with entering "La La land" and the fantasy world of cyber love... I totally agree with RockGnome, Eric, and rosie.

That wishful thinking can become more being in love with the idea of happily ever after with that person. It creates an illusion and make believe world in your mind. Until you actually meet, it's best to keep a huge sign on the wall that says, "It's not real until you can touch it, see it, taste it, and/or smell it"...

happy flowerforyou drinker

no photo
Thu 09/06/18 04:57 PM





RockGnome,

oh wow help me understand it...


Since you asked twice, I'll be glad to help.


Love with someone you've never met, and do not
know in person, can be nothing more than fantasy.
Wishful thinking.

It isn't real, until it's an 'in person' thing.



hey now i am not a scratch and sniffgrumble
true words^^^^ until you get to face to face it is more a projection from you than a truly reciproicated feeling


I agree with RockGnome and eric.

Until you meet face to face, share a kiss that sends electricity all over your body, embrace each other and feel the warmth of each other's bodies, look at each other's eyes, see each other's smile, hold each other's hands..

then this relationship or love is not real. It's all fantasy.

my two cents.
happy flowerforyou



Having had experience with entering "La La land" and the fantasy world of cyber love... I totally agree with RockGnome, Eric, and rosie.

That wishful thinking can become more being in love with the idea of happily ever after with that person. It creates an illusion and make believe world in your mind. Until you actually meet, it's best to keep a huge sign on the wall that says, "It's not real until you can touch it, see it, taste it, and/or smell it"...

happy flowerforyou drinker

Riverspirit1111's photo
Thu 09/06/18 05:04 PM






RockGnome,

oh wow help me understand it...


Since you asked twice, I'll be glad to help.


Love with someone you've never met, and do not
know in person, can be nothing more than fantasy.
Wishful thinking.

It isn't real, until it's an 'in person' thing.




true words^^^^ until you get to face to face it is more a projection from you than a truly reciproicated feeling


I agree with RockGnome and eric.

Until you meet face to face, share a kiss that sends electricity all over your body, embrace each other and feel the warmth of each other's bodies, look at each other's eyes, see each other's smile, hold each other's hands..

then this relationship or love is not real. It's all fantasy.

my two cents.
happy flowerforyou



Having had experience with entering "La La land" and the fantasy world of cyber love... I totally agree with RockGnome, Eric, and rosie.

That wishful thinking can become more being in love with the idea of happily ever after with that person. It creates an illusion and make believe world in your mind. Until you actually meet, it's best to keep a huge sign on the wall that says, "It's not real until you can touch it, see it, taste it, and/or smell it"...

happy flowerforyou drinker

hey now i am not a scratch and sniffgrumble


laugh "and/or"... sniffing's not required if you can do one of the other senses winking