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Topic: would anyone date me, whats wrong
donny68 in's photo
Sun 08/19/18 03:00 PM
i get guys that want talk dirty but im looking for real first contact ,yes im a virgin with men but despertly needing first encounter to see if i want this type life style so not waste my time

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Sun 08/19/18 04:35 PM
I think you will know in the first 2 second if it was a mistake or not

Good luck..

Toodygirl5's photo
Sun 08/19/18 04:52 PM
shocked


What!

Riverspirit1111's photo
Sun 08/19/18 04:52 PM
I would definitely take out the fact that you are desperate... Women run from that, so I imagine a man will too.

Maybe ask your wife to look at your profile and see if she has any suggestions. Unless of course you haven't told her... keeping it a secret that is.

As far as the pictures, I'd change the one of you without a shirt... add one fully dressed.

That's about all I can think of.... Good luck!

Toodygirl5's photo
Sun 08/19/18 05:03 PM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Sun 08/19/18 05:05 PM
laugh :. :thumbsup:

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Sun 08/19/18 05:16 PM
I agree with River. Don't say you are desperate. take your time to meet someone, and who is not married.

Easttowest72's photo
Sun 08/19/18 05:25 PM
Try POF. There are a lot of bad fish. Just have to weed out the bad ones. We all get the ones wanting to sext. Just delete them. Block if you have to. It's hard to find serious and compatible. Good luck.

donny68 in's photo
Sun 08/19/18 05:26 PM
no my wife dont know about this ,before i let it out want make sure its what i want. just have desires

donny68 in's photo
Sun 08/19/18 05:30 PM
i changed my profile let me know what u think

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Sun 08/19/18 05:35 PM
donny, do you not know if you are gay? you don't know if you want to stay in you're marriage? You should think for a while.

Riverspirit1111's photo
Sun 08/19/18 05:35 PM

no my wife dont know about this ,before i let it out want make sure its what i want. just have desires


Well just hire a hooker... or male prostitute. That way you can check it out without the man getting emotionally attached to you... just in case you decide to stick with the wife instead of coming out of the closet.

This is a rating thread... so as far as your profile goes... I stand by my original comment. You might want to consider checking other sites though. The folks here aren't too keen on cheating or hook ups... good luck.

Riverspirit1111's photo
Sun 08/19/18 05:41 PM

i changed my profile let me know what u think


Still screams desperate... Simply say you're exploring your sexual orientation and are looking for men interested in meeting for the evening to have a good time. Tell them you're married (honesty is important!) so you aren't looking for long term... just a casual meeting to explore inner desires.

:thumbsup:


donny68 in's photo
Sun 08/19/18 06:11 PM
i live by Siloam springs Arkansas, no hookers or prostitute with in at least 50 miles.and my wife not really active but i need to feel love and passion. i tried to deal with it but 6 years later. iv always thought of being with man but to scared ,.now i want to do this and find out for me .just once thank you

donny68 in's photo
Sun 08/19/18 06:13 PM
i will take ur advice and change some more thank you

Riverspirit1111's photo
Sun 08/19/18 06:19 PM
Well good luck to you. In my opinion it would be best to be honest with your wife about your interests and pending ventures... it's really no different than someone contemplating cheating on his spouse with another woman... just with a man in this case.

But it's not my place to judge so I won't. What you do is your business... hopefully with no harm to anyone.

waving

donny68 in's photo
Sun 08/19/18 06:39 PM
i changed it again .after i find out if im by i will tell her ,need to make sure first. please see if better

Riverspirit1111's photo
Sun 08/19/18 06:41 PM
Much better! Good luck!

donny68 in's photo
Sun 08/19/18 06:54 PM
thank u very much

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Mon 08/20/18 05:53 AM

no my wife dont know about this ,before i let it out want make sure its what i want. just have desires


Wow... she is going to be shocked... hope she doesn't walk it on it.. that is cardiac arrest stuff.

donny68 in's photo
Mon 08/20/18 10:58 AM
i plan on being discreet i have private place for this

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