I'd like a woman that can be tolerant of how silly I get... Someone that doesn't mind when I randomly become a workaholic and pushes me to take a break every once in a while, get back to my silly self again and then pull me out of wonderland.

Ehh, it's a cycle...

I advise you to try a few dating sites. I can not name names here ( policy ) but try the major free dating websites. Mingle is a qualitative dating site but quantitative it is smaller than other well known dating sites, so combining it with other sites might be your best bet.

Also, and please don’t take this as criticism, I see you have written quite a few ads in just a few days time. That scares girls. It comes over as desperate.
Self-confidence is very important when it comes to dating. And if you lack self-confidence : “ fake it till you make it “.

Good luck on your journey.
She is out there somewhere.