Well thank you Dr Phil but in the interim wouldn't it be wise to get the facts before condescending ?

back in the day when i was looking for a female , nope
today if i was looken for a female , nope

guess i was just raised different <shrug>
but then again i was never looking for sex , was all ways looken for a relationship

but then again i have never slept with a lady i wasn't daten or married to

never did the one night sleep over type thing
just not my style


too each there own

what two consenting adults agree to is fine, if they enjoy meaningless sex all the power to them

But realistically you dont know each other, the attraction may be strong but so what?

You dont really know each other.

If you are the type of person that values sex , intimacy and long term committed relationship having sex on the first date isn't your thing.

Because you believe that intimacy is best enjoy after a bond is established.

I personally dont value someone a potential long term partner If she is willing to have sex on the first date or two especially if we were out and drinks were involved.

I would have serious trust issues with her if she is out with friends whether its a girls weekend or vacation somewhere, and she meets a charming guy that has the gift of the gab.

On the other hand if that is what two people want I say go for it and God bless you.

People do it all the time. If you understand that you want sex on a first date based on animal attraction only, then it’s your choice to make. But if you believe you’re doing it because of deeper emotional feelings, you might want to sober up and/or grow up and remember that you can’t possibly know this person well enough to feel anything other than what you want to feel yet.

Sex is Haram

Should you have sex on the first date I say yes if you like the guy

Opinions are like ********....everyone’s got one ....there’s nothing wrong with having sex on the first date if that’s what you choose to do just like there’s nothing wrong with not...people are so judgmental of other people and think there way is the right way...too each it’s own mind your business I say! Lol

Opinions are like ********....everyone’s got one ....there’s nothing wrong with having sex on the first date if that’s what you choose to do just like there’s nothing wrong with not...people are so judgmental of other people and think there way is the right way...too each it’s own mind your business I say! Lol

the problem is, the ones that have sex on the first date are the ones complaining that cant find a relationship that last, and they are usually bitter towards the opposite sex

I agree if two people want to have sex on the first date, knock yourself out, but dont complain or whine about not finding someone who is real or wants a real relationship.

Im not a judgmental person at all, I just choose not to date someone who thinks its fine to have sex on the first date without knowing each other.

for me, and I can only speak about my situation,I find that if a woman wants to have sex but wants to know me first and develop an emotional attachment first and if it takes time Im fine with that because when it happens we will doing it like rabbits and makes up for lost time
Your barking up the wrong tree I don’t get in arguments or debates with people I choose to spend my time doing other things
anyways just my two cents Canadian.3.5 cents American.

Opinions are like ********....everyone’s got one ....there’s nothing wrong with having sex on the first date if that’s what you choose to do just like there’s nothing wrong with not...people are so judgmental of other people and think there way is the right way...too each it’s own mind your business I say! Lol