Hi gang
I have had a few coffee dates from mingle, but no call-backs.
I do get a lot of nuisance messages supposedly from women who try to direct me to a porn site.
Is there a method you guys/gals use to get real messages? most of the time ?
...and if you have any good suggestions to assist me to improve my profile they would be most welcome..
I'm genuine...
Steve.

Hey Steve,
Welcime you can usually tell because it's a one word email like hi or hey.. and they are usually from major cities sometimes under 40 years old only one picture and they usually ask for an email..
You probably know all these tricks buy now hopefully you find what you're looking for

I set distance and age at a tight range. It cut out some of the fake email.

You really should fill out the interests so the ladies at least know if they have any common interests with you.

Gypsy, the fact that you chose the age range of 25 as a minimum invites a lot of the scammers and spammers.

When I first joined I had a ton of messages all from 20 to 27 and a few 18 and 19 year old and I thought ewwwwwww, that is creepy.

So I put an age restriction , so no one under 36 can message me, I still get messages from older ones but most of them are whack jobs, poly, looking for 3 somes in for their open relationship, FWB etc.

I think Ive had 2 serious inquiries since Ive joined.

But Im a pragmatist and understand not to put all my eggs in one basket .