It has been almost month. I couldn't fine any genuine user. Its full of profile providing escort services. Also, I haven't got any reply from anyone and when I get they are all escorts. I am here to find someone for genuine friendship or may relationship. I started to think that it is all garbage here. I wanted to have opinions before I leave. So here I am.

just keep looking

Its just so frustrating you know.

Eh you learn to spot them. Just have fun. And spend time in the forums.

Hello pretty.

More of a social mingle slow dating.

Your message says "it has been almost a month" but your profile says you joined less than a week ago...if that is true, you may have very unrealistic expectations for only a short period of time...

I think you are missing the point here. It doesn't matter when I joined, its about presence of genuine users. If I would have wanted escort services then I don't need a mingle account for that. They say its online dating site but what I have observed its more like escorts site. And about my unrealistic expectation, if i am paying for this service and not getting what i was promised then yeah its very unrealistic because they don't mention escort services in their site or app description.

Bala

I can feel your frustration, but since Im a pragmatic man by nature I can only give you my experience on here.

I joined this site early June of this year 2018, and its been not the best experience as I was inundated with all sorts of fake messages from 20 something, even though Im 46

Fake, escorts, those looking for three somes, open relationships etc.

My first day on here 40 something messages,not one of them over 29 and none from my home country of Canada, when I put filters in then I got all the pervs and whack jobs, those from Russia pretending to live in America.

Ive received probably over 90 messages, not one from my country, now Im mostly on the forums and Ive talked to two people one guy and one girl, both good people she is friggen adorable and who knows what the future holds.

My point dont be frustrated, take it with a grain of salt participate on the forums and you just dont know who you will find

Just block out th 95% riff raff and keep your head up, its a free site and it attracts all types.

good luck.

thanks for the advice diserli. I am already blocking fake profiles. And as you said , I will try to increase my involvement in forums.

hang in there Bala, its does get better
its just sucks for you because you are in your twenties and it seems most of the scammers, scumbags, fakers are in their twenties.


And you cant block all of them until they contact you.

Keep your head up .

You have only been on here a few days. Don't only rely on people to write to you. Do your own search to read profiles and find someone. Hang out in the forums. Good luck.

I think it's funny that people say you should hang out in forums. There should be a spot where you can look for people in your area. Not have to go threw thousands of profiled

You can set filters to meet someone within 150 miles of you, as an example. I can look at a forum for people from Idaho, if I want. There are a lot of everyday users in the forums.