I got big heart and always get ruined over hard to change what should I do

Dang if I know..it's the society in which we live man..turn it around..quit asking yourself what's wrong with you..and ask yourself what's wrong with them.. ..I'm thinkin' it's all those meds in the water supply..The world man it's like messed up ..must be those extra planets spinning around lately..or too much huffin' on the fukushima radiation..too many hours staring at too many computer screens..could be too much UVC or UVB rays..seems like the earth isn't the only thing crackin' up these days..As you can see I have excuses for days..works for me .. feel free to use any of these or a combination..or make up your own..it's the world cuz it sure in the hell ain't me...

sounds like you've entered the friendzone one too many times and you are considering ordering furniture



what do you think the problem is?

I suggest Bill Cosby cocktails.. But don't take me word for it.. I just got out of Leavenworth

In regards to your profile... Your opening statement says you're looking for someone to take you to the clouds... and you're interested in an activity partner... This, in my opinion, will most likely be interpreted as you wanting to get laid.

If you're not and looking for someone to go fishing with or to do other outdoor stuff with, then explain that a little better in your "about me" section. I would also expand a little more about yourself and the kind of woman you are interested in meeting. Try to make it a little more positive and upbeat.

Sometimes it helps to take a step back and objectively look at what you write, then ask... "Would I contact the person who wrote this?"

Add another picture that isn't just a head shot. Maybe one where you're fishing. Take the "im quite laid back hate drama and I mind my on business" out of the "interests" and put it in the "about me" section. Eliminate the word hate, and use I don't like instead. Try to stay away from extremes unless it has a positive connotation like passion or love.

That's about all I can think of... hope it helps and good luck to you.

Take Picesmoons advice for your profile and apply it to your life. We all have wants and needs. It just isn't going to happen with just anyone. Focus on yourself for awhile. Sometimes we fall into picking people who really are not good for us, and until we know the reason, we will continue. Learn to enjoy being you and that will attract the right one for you,