Topic: Almost a year being single!
CaRisLOVE's photo
Tue 12/04/07 05:37 PM

sometimes caris when i am feeling lonely, i like to take a bunch of fruits, (mainly bananas but whatever fruit you have around even vegetables work!) and sculpt a person, sometimes i sit them in a chair, and talk to them about my day, and what i am feeling, it makes me feel so much better flowerforyou flowerforyou


lmfao!
oh babygirl you are soooo cute!!
love
boo id go horseback riding with you anyday
and i havent even done dat before lol

CaRisLOVE's photo
Tue 12/04/07 05:43 PM

Look caris, I was where you are right now once. Face the facts, most girls in their early twenties don't want to settle down with the nice and sensetive guy. They won't decide that that's what they want until they're 26~30 and the fun of alcohol fades away and all the good guys are taken.

So for right now, give up man. You can't find love. It has to find you. And if you're not getting out there and hitting the town every once in a while, you're not really giving it a chance to. Not to mention, one night stands are only a problem when SHE isn't expecting it to be one. Girls like sex too. Give 'em what they want! You get knowledge that can be used in future relationships, they get Caris Mclovin. It's win-win.


ah wow dats some advice
but even i dont think i would give up
and yes your right mosty young girls dont want dat yet some say they do but then again i would rather be with a older woman, a (cougar lol or a milf?)laugh but i do want to be with a girl who actually wants tha romance and love, so i just hope to come across her, im just confused to know if a girl wants to have tha same with me and yea yea heard it all
LOVE WILL FIND YOU, well i still have alot of love to give cursed to give alot of love to one another to share it with, but other than dat i aint gonna be fooled nomore, i do want to real deal and still pursuing it!
:wink:

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Tue 12/04/07 05:44 PM
well caris! you are talking to the AQHA reining chick! laugh laugh i will train you, heels down head look where you're going! we start with posture on the horse , posture is everything laugh

Amberdee29045's photo
Tue 12/04/07 05:53 PM

Look caris, I was where you are right now once. Face the facts, most girls in their early twenties don't want to settle down with the nice and sensetive guy. They won't decide that that's what they want until they're 26~30 and the fun of alcohol fades away and all the good guys are taken.


I have to say that quite a few of us gals in our early twenties DO want to settle down, I was never a party it up girl myself, even BEFORE I became a single mother at the age of 19. But that doesn't mean I wanted a father for my daughter either................I'm just not lookin myself anymore because I'm still hurting from realizing that I was planning my wedding for nothing.....would have been married for two months now if my ex wasn't abusive towards me.

CaRisLOVE's photo
Tue 12/04/07 06:05 PM

well caris! you are talking to the AQHA reining chick! laugh laugh i will train you, heels down head look where you're going! we start with posture on the horse , posture is everything laugh



awesome cow girl!
teach me to ride like tha wind!
but real talk, id definently go horse back ridng with you sexy!
i love girs with skills and your 5'6"?
yet you seem tall to me lol weird
love bigsmile

CaRisLOVE's photo
Tue 12/04/07 06:08 PM


Look caris, I was where you are right now once. Face the facts, most girls in their early twenties don't want to settle down with the nice and sensetive guy. They won't decide that that's what they want until they're 26~30 and the fun of alcohol fades away and all the good guys are taken.


I have to say that quite a few of us gals in our early twenties DO want to settle down, I was never a party it up girl myself, even BEFORE I became a single mother at the age of 19. But that doesn't mean I wanted a father for my daughter either................I'm just not lookin myself anymore because I'm still hurting from realizing that I was planning my wedding for nothing.....would have been married for two months now if my ex wasn't abusive towards me.


some girls want to be taken and some dont know wat they clearly want, sorry for your pain, i havent been in pain like dat before
but wat i say on this i do mean it a wifey type of girl is wat i want and come across some but they either be taken by then or just want to be single, so im confused,

Goofball73's photo
Tue 12/04/07 08:04 PM
Two years single for me bro. I was married, and I can tell you this. Marriage is a great thing man. But I have to say man, get out there and date man. Go out and meet women. Not just on here, but get out and talk to women. I do that. Hell, most of my good friends are women, and I love that. I just hate when they try to play matchmaker with me.grumble grumble laugh laugh

I had flings man, and while it did satisfy the urge, I can understand why you wouldn't want to. But that doesn't mean not to get out and meet some chicks. I'm not all that, but I talk to women. Not at them, and they respect that. I don't meet them with the intent to bang them that night. You just never know who you will meet just by walking up and saying, "Hi!".

Single life can be fun, but like Maya said, I do miss the feeling of being with the one you care for. Just something special about that.

missmissyj's photo
Tue 12/04/07 09:02 PM
I agree with Goofball 73. Get out and have fun and meet girls. Being single rocks! Look at it as an adventure instead of sitting around and feeling sorry for yourself. Looking for love is exciting and once you look at it that way, you will relax and have fun!

CaRisLOVE's photo
Tue 12/04/07 09:35 PM
no dating and i aint feeling sorry for myself
im just confused and dont want dat whole fling thing
but i guess i will come across dat girl for me soon or maybe she's closer than i think
only time can tell
smooched

CaRisLOVE's photo
Tue 12/04/07 09:37 PM

I agree with Goofball 73. Get out and have fun and meet girls. Being single rocks! Look at it as an adventure instead of sitting around and feeling sorry for yourself. Looking for love is exciting and once you look at it that way, you will relax and have fun!


being single rocks to you
not to me, cause you dont know how i am i have alot of love to give to a girl i rather be taken so i can share dat love with a girl who truly deserves it

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Tue 12/04/07 09:37 PM
Well don't feel bad! I've been single all my life! frown

CaRisLOVE's photo
Wed 12/05/07 04:29 PM

Well don't feel bad! I've been single all my life! frown


dat sucks bro
wow now i kinda feel bad..frown
but well i hope you find a girl worth it
and yea just hoping she comes along
and at least can truly make me smile
embarassed

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Wed 12/05/07 04:31 PM
alta? what about the other day?sad sad sad

CaRisLOVE's photo
Wed 12/05/07 04:38 PM
Edited by CaRisLOVE on Wed 12/05/07 04:39 PM

alta? what about the other day?sad sad sad

its very strange how your single maja
far from your looks and all, you seem to be fun and funny and just dat girl to hang out with?
so why are you single? or do you choose to be it? or just cant find a guy worth your time?
:smile:

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Wed 12/05/07 04:39 PM
no one asks me out!frown

CaRisLOVE's photo
Wed 12/05/07 04:43 PM

no one asks me out!frown


are they gay?!
lmao
seriously..why wouldnt they ask you out?
your hot your sexy, your funny and witty, your loving your smart
and also just too sweet
id hang out with you anytime!
love love love love

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Wed 12/05/07 04:44 PM
aww thank you carisflowerforyou flowerforyou same to you

CaRisLOVE's photo
Wed 12/05/07 04:45 PM

aww thank you carisflowerforyou flowerforyou same to you


yea so, really is it cause you dont find guys worth your time?
or your afraid to be used ?
or your just wanting to make friends only?

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Wed 12/05/07 04:46 PM
no all the guys already have girlfriends, and it feels like i am the only single one

CaRisLOVE's photo
Wed 12/05/07 04:53 PM

no all the guys already have girlfriends, and it feels like i am the only single one


dayum boo, surely there's some guy out there you want?
other than dat , id be with you in a sec if i could!
embarassed