After 16 years of love, loving & taking care of her she left me but I let her go ... To go back home to her mother , honestly im not angry just hurt she had gotten sick about a year ago mentally and lost control , had chronic pain for about 8 years from severe scoliosis its honestly been hell , but when you love you , you love hard … anyway here to meet new people and hoping for more , more than anything im just ready to move forward please any and all feed back is helfull & wanted …

Sorry to hear that. I'm sure there are lots of similar stories among the people here so perhaps you'll find comfort in talking to some kindred spirits.

Sorry for your breakup Kari. Nothing anyone can say will make it better but the people here in the forums can comfort you and make you feel like an old friend. Welcome and hope you stay for a while.