Imagine your true love from 30 years ago contacted you and said they wanted to get back together? Would you give up everything to be with her. Obviously we all grow and change over time. What if they are no longer the person you fell in love with? Would it be worth the risk?

I would be willing to get together and talk about it. He was a great guy and at the time we met. I wasn't ready for a serious relationship. He was probably the one for me! I did find out fews yrs ago he's happy married with children. Who knows that could change.

if I look intricately ....it all ends up in intimacy ......increased ....or decreased .....Further
it makes me think ...does getting physical increase or decrease the closeness between men and women....?
Because I have seen both the extremes......

the million dollar question is what does time and having sex do to a couple ?.........
any generalized template models....to be relied upon?

People do change overtime. If he was my true love and the reasons why we separated are not grave I would want to find out if we could have a second chance.yes

I never understood true love.....

After 30 years...it won't be the same. At all.

But if the two are 'interested' in trying it out, sure...go for it.

with the exception of one. most of my past flames for that long ago faded cuz we weren't ready for something more permanent. so yes i would try a replay

So long as I'm still single, yes!

My sister and her fiance knew each other as teenagers/young adults and ran into each other 30 years later. The biggest hurdle for them was seeing the person for who he/she is now and not the one they fell in love with years ago. This was especially more difficult for her fiance, because he was the one who was head over heals in love with her... she had a little crush on him but they never connected back then. They
plan to get married in August.

I personally wouldn't go back , once a relationship is over for whatever reason ,its time to keep in the past and not revisit it.

Too many remember the good times and forget about the conflicts, the heart aches etc.

Life is about today and tomorrow and learning from the past, It wouldn't be worth the risk.

love is pure but for my X answer is "Yes" bxs I didn't try for other girl after her... but anyways I am not even 30.. so I don't have to worry..

It will make us feel as uncomfortable as ever

"true love from 30 years ago".


But, i had so many true loves that summer.

It'd be an f'n nightmare,
if they all showed up at the same time.

I would need more details.
I mean did this 13 year old girl just pop out of some space time continuum gate, as a 13 year old?

Or is she this washed up junkie that just got released from a 20 year sentence full of hep c, hiv, and the herp, covered in prison ink and an eye patch?

Did she just get out of her 6th marriage and was looking through the last 3000 boyfriends on facebook and my profile was # 2432 that she saw and responded to?

I need to know what has transpired in the last 30 years.


No. That sounds either retarded or like a bad romantic comedy/drama movie/t.v. show.


I would think it would be far more scary if they were the exact same person I "fell in love with" when we were 13.


No. Committing to some kind of binding relationship at the cost of everything I have acquired intellectually, emotionally, financially, etc. (as you said, give up "everything") for a virtual stranger I started puberty with would not be worth it.