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Topic: Dreading New Years
jisytg14's photo
Sun 12/02/07 06:27 PM
i gotta be honest.. new years is right up there with valentines day for me... most of my friends have boyfriends/girlfriends... and when that big ball drops.. well lets put it this way.. its a constant reminder that i'm single lol... does anyone else feel this way... what do you do about it?? i don't wanna not go out.. but at the same point i hate it

coco56's photo
Sun 12/02/07 06:30 PM
i never have anyone to spend new yrs with i never go out

marky84's photo
Sun 12/02/07 06:30 PM
i feel ur pain flowerforyou

*huggyz*


Goofball73's photo
Sun 12/02/07 06:32 PM
I get ass drunk and forget the pain...and I miss the damn ball dropping. Might stay sober this New Years.bigsmile

Snugglesbyfire's photo
Sun 12/02/07 06:32 PM
I never go out anymore on New years Eve.........its a couples night........tried it before and ended up sitting in the ladies room talking to the attendant at midnight........and while the slow songs were playing...............makes being the 5th wheel worse

cherryxxangel89's photo
Sun 12/02/07 06:32 PM
get your friends together and have a party drink dance just know you are a wonderful women you deserve the best in life and there is a great guy out there for you it just takes time
and the guys that arnt with you are missing out just remember there assholes your not and that should help you

if you need anyone to talk to you can message me

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 12/02/07 06:34 PM
I know what you mean, it sort of stinks at times.. I go out with friends and make the best of it.. But I do feel that twinge at times.. All in all I just remind myself that I'm single by choice not b/c I have to be...

Caliman707's photo
Sun 12/02/07 06:34 PM
New Yrs isnt THAT BAD. One of my best friends DIED last new yrs eve and found out about 10 minutes before ball dropped. Wonder how this new yrs will go.

ephraimglass's photo
Sun 12/02/07 06:35 PM
I'm planning on getting extremely drunk, making out with a complete stranger (hopefully female) and taking a taxi home. It sure beats hiding in my apartment, wallowing in self-pity, like I did last year.

no photo
Sun 12/02/07 06:37 PM
Edited by Roadie_512 on Sun 12/02/07 06:38 PM
I don't think your situation is isolated. I feel the same way, typically stay home and out of trouble. It would be sweet and romantic to spend the quiet evening ushering in the New Year with that special someone. As the fireworks from the San Francisco Bay went off, I reflected on the year gone by, which always seemed too fast, and the goals and wishes for the year ahead.

SWEETENSEXYB's photo
Sun 12/02/07 06:40 PM
Ok ppl, Seems like wer'e all in the same boat for New Years. So, why don't we just have our own little New Years Bash right here on Just say hi.????????????????? This is were most of my friends are and yours too probably. I'll make my famous punch I call Fruity goodness, after a couple of those, you'll forget about not having a significant other. LOL laugh laugh So, what do you guys think????? I know I can count on Coco to join in, right girl???????????????????flowerforyou

ephraimglass's photo
Sun 12/02/07 06:42 PM
No offense, SWEETENSEXYB, I'm here to get pointers to help get me away from the computer more often. It's a swell idea and you all can have fun with it if you like. I'm going to try to put myself in proximal company with people, 'cause I'm tired of getting my social interaction by proxy via the interblag.

tsw123's photo
Sun 12/02/07 06:42 PM
I think New Years is over-rated anyway. Order a pizza, drink beer and watch the ball drop on tv.

no photo
Sun 12/02/07 06:46 PM

i gotta be honest.. new years is right up there with valentines day for me... most of my friends have boyfriends/girlfriends... and when that big ball drops.. well lets put it this way.. its a constant reminder that i'm single lol... does anyone else feel this way... what do you do about it?? i don't wanna not go out.. but at the same point i hate it

You will have a date by then, or on that night, yes,,,,I just feel it,wink,wink,.
But I'll keep my fingers crossed for ya...:heart: flowerforyou drinker :wink:

jisytg14's photo
Sun 12/02/07 06:50 PM
awww thanks :smile: i sure hope so lol.. but i'm totally not one of those people who is miserable single.. i just feel like there are certain days of the year completely insensitive to the single population haha and new years is one of em

Snugglesbyfire's photo
Sun 12/02/07 06:51 PM
<<agrees with jisytg14 100 percent............couple days make being single worse

confettie_popper's photo
Sun 12/02/07 06:52 PM
OMG- I was going to start this same topic..yeah, I hate new years..last year's resolution was to NOT be alone this year...things arent looking well...perhaps I should lower my moral fence..go to the closest bar and find some random man to share the first seconds of 2008 with...but, I'll probably just lay in bed and cry:cry: I really hate this single lifestyle...

geektothetenth's photo
Sun 12/02/07 06:55 PM
aww you can come over to PA for New Years.:wink:

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sun 12/02/07 06:55 PM
Our local POF group is having a get together New Years Eve at an area club. Check out if yours is too.

Goofball73's photo
Sun 12/02/07 06:59 PM
Well, thankfully my family is planning our first ever New Years bash. So that is cool, but nobody to kiss when the new year begins. sad sad sad sad sad sad

But, we will have all kinds of food, games, and fireworks. So, that is good. "sigh" Need a date now. To bad I can't take a "escort" there...my family would crap a brick!laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

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