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depends on just how hard you fall ss Referring to your's and Rob's post.. I thought most of you guys refused to fall for anyone you haven't met face to face yet? I actually fell in love with someone in Singapore that I met on mingle. We were planning our get together. I had made hotel arrangements and bought the expensive round trip ticket. But a medical condition on her side, prevented us from meeting. Must admitt, I still think of her. Not too late I hope Rob? You can still do it if you wanted to 
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depends on just how hard you fall ss Referring to your's and Rob's post.. I thought most of you guys refused to fall for anyone you haven't met face to face yet? I actually fell in love with someone in Singapore that I met on mingle. We were planning our get together. I had made hotel arrangements and bought the expensive round trip ticket. But a medical condition on her side, prevented us from meeting. Must admitt, I still think of her. Not too late I hope Rob? You can still do it if you wanted to
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to answer p 1st "falling for" is not in love or even proof of able to reach happily ever after.and those need face to face and a lot of it. falling hard enough is when the other two try convincing you they already exist If you need convincing then surely that’s not hard enough? Or Am i getting all confused this early morning lol |
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I know this question is for the guys, but had a thought to share. Hope you don’t mind. It’s possible that a man excited enough to go that far has built an ideal up in his mind that noone could possibly live up to. Even if she’s a wonderful girl, he will be disappointed to have gone so far only to find a human at the end of his rainbow. It could also go both ways right? It’s nice to see your post here dear. That thought is a real thing and I do agree 
That could happen on bith sides of course. I think that would be the first thing on my mind, not that anyone would want to fly around the globe to meet me. Haha! You young beauties are the ones who have to worry about that. Jan I think you have that wrong there. If I were a man I would fly to you after knowing your beautiful heart and intelligent mind. Being your pretty self is just an added bonus . I mean it dear thanks again
You’re very sweet to say that. I hadn’t seen your profile before. You’re not much younger than me. You look so young! it would be hard to hate you for it. You’re too nice. 
I’m too nice yes that’s a curse hahahhaha anyways laughing makes us feel and look younger. Cheers to you dear  we’re old enough for this one lol
We’re old enough to know better too. But I won’t tell if you won’t. Hehe!
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to answer p 1st "falling for" is not in love or even proof of able to reach happily ever after.and those need face to face and a lot of it. falling hard enough is when the other two try convincing you they already exist That makes sense. Thanks for explaining. |
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depends on just how hard you fall ss Referring to your's and Rob's post.. I thought most of you guys refused to fall for anyone you haven't met face to face yet? I actually fell in love with someone in Singapore that I met on mingle. We were planning our get together. I had made hotel arrangements and bought the expensive round trip ticket. But a medical condition on her side, prevented us from meeting. Must admitt, I still think of her. Not too late I hope Rob? You can still do it if you wanted to
She wanted to finish her treatments first. She has my email and number. Ball is in her court. I sent her a birthday gift. No response. So the ball is in her court. Thanks for asking... |
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maybe another cuppa dearest
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depends on just how hard you fall ss Referring to your's and Rob's post.. I thought most of you guys refused to fall for anyone you haven't met face to face yet? I actually fell in love with someone in Singapore that I met on mingle. We were planning our get together. I had made hotel arrangements and bought the expensive round trip ticket. But a medical condition on her side, prevented us from meeting. Must admitt, I still think of her. Sorry you didn't get a chance to meet. And thanks for sharing, I hope you'll get to meet her someday. |
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depends on just how hard you fall ss Referring to your's and Rob's post.. I thought most of you guys refused to fall for anyone you haven't met face to face yet? I actually fell in love with someone in Singapore that I met on mingle. We were planning our get together. I had made hotel arrangements and bought the expensive round trip ticket. But a medical condition on her side, prevented us from meeting. Must admitt, I still think of her. Not too late I hope Rob? You can still do it if you wanted to
She wanted to finish her treatments first. She has my email and number. Ball is in her court. I sent her a birthday gift. No response. So the ball is in her court. Thanks for asking... I see.. hope things will work out. |
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@Piecesmoon
Thanks moonchild! |
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@Piecesmoon Thanks moonchild! You're welcome Rob! |
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First key is meeting men who travel. Many men been round the world and not for just a woman. Those guys don't mind traveling to meet a lady just to see if a relationship works. Oh that’s an idea there. You think men who say they travel would really mean it when they say they will go the extra mile? Toddy, let’s say he is a pilot who travels all over the world , he says he’s really eager to meet personally but it has been a year and never happened? He would always mention it but not say a definite date. He makes it clear that the girl is special but why does he not commit for a meet up just for starters? Why would he be doing it for a year already? I hope toddy will comment and the guys too
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maybe another cuppa dearest Another cuppa didn’t make a difference SN lol 
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Hey mingle guys at least the very real ones, in a scenario that you would like to get to know a girl beyond a dating app, what does it take? I mean surely love will never be the reason because physically you haven’t been with her. What would it take for a man to travel half across the globe to get to know a woman? And when does a woman believe that he is really going to go that far? Please don’t answer with the love bit it is overrated. This is not about tips on how to get a guy but just curiosity on why or what makes a guy go the extra mile. I do hope my hopelessly romantic side does not get crushed with the real answers lol
For me it would come down to believing that taking the risk is worth it. I mean....when it comes down to it....and no matter the distance (he/she could live in your same town, and love is still a risk) going to see someone is all about having faith in your risk. You have to accept the fact that it could not work. I have actually traveled eight hours to meet someone and it was great. We dated for two years and I have no regrets. I have also traveled about four hours and it didn't go so well, and while that sucked I moved on. So yeah....to me it's all about believing the risk is worth it. |
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Hey mingle guys at least the very real ones, in a scenario that you would like to get to know a girl beyond a dating app, what does it take? I mean surely love will never be the reason because physically you haven’t been with her. What would it take for a man to travel half across the globe to get to know a woman? And when does a woman believe that he is really going to go that far? Please don’t answer with the love bit it is overrated. This is not about tips on how to get a guy but just curiosity on why or what makes a guy go the extra mile. I do hope my hopelessly romantic side does not get crushed with the real answers lol
For me it would come down to believing that taking the risk is worth it. I mean....when it comes down to it....and no matter the distance (he/she could live in your same town, and love is still a risk) going to see someone is all about having faith in your risk. You have to accept the fact that it could not work. I have actually traveled eight hours to meet someone and it was great. We dated for two years and I have no regrets. I have also traveled about four hours and it didn't go so well, and while that sucked I moved on. So yeah....to me it's all about believing the risk is worth it. You mean that getting to know the person more is worth the risk and money no matter how that meeting ends? How do you decide about the worthiness of a woman aside from the physical aspect? Thanks goofy 
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Hey mingle guys at least the very real ones, in a scenario that you would like to get to know a girl beyond a dating app, what does it take? I mean surely love will never be the reason because physically you haven’t been with her. What would it take for a man to travel half across the globe to get to know a woman? And when does a woman believe that he is really going to go that far? Please don’t answer with the love bit it is overrated. This is not about tips on how to get a guy but just curiosity on why or what makes a guy go the extra mile. I do hope my hopelessly romantic side does not get crushed with the real answers lol
For me it would come down to believing that taking the risk is worth it. I mean....when it comes down to it....and no matter the distance (he/she could live in your same town, and love is still a risk) going to see someone is all about having faith in your risk. You have to accept the fact that it could not work. I have actually traveled eight hours to meet someone and it was great. We dated for two years and I have no regrets. I have also traveled about four hours and it didn't go so well, and while that sucked I moved on. So yeah....to me it's all about believing the risk is worth it. You mean that getting to know the person more is worth the risk and money no matter how that meeting ends? How do you decide about the worthiness of a woman aside from the physical aspect? Thanks goofy
For me it was worth the risk (financially and emotionally). I can't speak for everyone (each person is different and has a different view) but if a person weighs all the risks and feels it is worth it then go for it. I know people who have taken the risk and are happily married. They might be in the minority but it worked for them. |
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Hey mingle guys at least the very real ones, in a scenario that you would like to get to know a girl beyond a dating app, what does it take? I mean surely love will never be the reason because physically you haven’t been with her. What would it take for a man to travel half across the globe to get to know a woman? And when does a woman believe that he is really going to go that far? Please don’t answer with the love bit it is overrated. This is not about tips on how to get a guy but just curiosity on why or what makes a guy go the extra mile. I do hope my hopelessly romantic side does not get crushed with the real answers lol
For me it would come down to believing that taking the risk is worth it. I mean....when it comes down to it....and no matter the distance (he/she could live in your same town, and love is still a risk) going to see someone is all about having faith in your risk. You have to accept the fact that it could not work. I have actually traveled eight hours to meet someone and it was great. We dated for two years and I have no regrets. I have also traveled about four hours and it didn't go so well, and while that sucked I moved on. So yeah....to me it's all about believing the risk is worth it. You mean that getting to know the person more is worth the risk and money no matter how that meeting ends? How do you decide about the worthiness of a woman aside from the physical aspect? Thanks goofy
For me it was worth the risk (financially and emotionally). I can't speak for everyone (each person is different and has a different view) but if a person weighs all the risks and feels it is worth it then go for it. I know people who have taken the risk and are happily married. They might be in the minority but it worked for them. Which do you weigh more and listen to? Your mind or your heart? It can never be equal we listen to one then ignore the other most of the time. |
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one drives the other steers. the trick is not letting one dominate the other
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one drives the other steers. the trick is not letting one dominate the other That’s easier said than done SN. Should it run on gas or diesel 
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