Topic: Want a real lover
martinz05's photo
Thu 02/22/18 07:40 PM
Sometime I really I don’t know to express myself to someone I love and am afraid to be turn down

mightymoe's photo
Thu 02/22/18 07:48 PM

Sometime I really I don’t know to express myself to someone I love and am afraid to be turn down
why are people afraid? It's always a numbers game, for every no you hear, your closer to a yes... nobody ever hears yes Everytime...

Rooster35's photo
Thu 02/22/18 08:13 PM
I got just the cure for you.
This helped me in my shy days.
I did it as an experiment and to kick myself out there.

Go out to a club or wherever people dance and approach every.single.woman there asking to dance.
You'll get a lot of "No, thank you" and keep going, one after the other and keep going until a Lady says "yes".
Repeat as needed.

Fear of rejection isn't rational.
Most fears are irrational and conquered when we face them head on.