Okay, nothing serious on this one. Just let's ponder what we did in the past.

Lots of us around here are divorced.

So, if you are in this category...

1. How long did you know/date your ex-spouse before you moved in together?

2. How long did you know/date each other before getting engaged?

3. How long did you know/date each other before getting married?

4. How long were you married?

And since I asked, I guess I should answer.

1. 4 months
2. 4 months (officially with ring)
3. 11 months
4. Married=just under 2 years. Divorce final after what would have been our 3rd anniversary.

Live and learn. At least we do our best to be friends and raise our boy together.

Share with me! Let's not bash the ex-spouses either!

Hugs, M

1. How long did you know/date your ex-spouse before you moved in together?
2yrs
2. How long did you know/date each other before getting engaged?
2yrs
3. How long did you know/date each other before getting married?
10yrs
4. How long were you married?
3yrs

Okay. I will give you my answers then.

1. How long did you know/date your ex-spouse before you moved in together?

Did not move in with her until after our wedding day, or when we got back from the honeymoon.

2. How long did you know/date each other before getting engaged?

4 years

3. How long did you know/date each other before getting married?

6 years

4. How long were you married?

9 years

which marriage???

All of them, Smiles! Share with us!

Oh Lordy,,, that could take days!

Never lived together...weekended alot.

3 years and we sort of went right to marriage. We had to or I couln't get a passport and be with him in Japan.

We were married 20 years.

Smiles...it will take all night? Are you that slow a typer? Or were there that many marriages? Don't answer if it is too personal a question.

Poly...you lived Japan? How cool! Was your spouse in the military?

Moved in together 4 months after we met. Never got a proposal. Married 3 months after we moved in together. Stayed together for 10years.

Michele...
My husband was in Federal Civil Service....we spent one year in Japan and one year in Okinawa....
It was really interesting but great to get back to Hawaii

too many marriages. My daddy finally told me I didn't have to marry every man I slept with...

I think you missed his point, he just wanted you to sleep with fewer men okay don't hit me I'm kidding.

*covers groin and prepares to duck*

1. How long did you know/date your ex-spouse before you moved in together? we were shared a house with others before we dated

2. How long did you know/date each other before getting engaged? 3 months

3. How long did you know/date each other before getting married? 2 years

4. How long were you married? 14 years

3 months
4 months
9 months
14 years

1. How long did you know/date your ex-spouse before you moved in together?
Six weeks.


2. How long did you know/date each other before getting engaged?
Three years.


3. How long did you know/date each other before getting married?
Five years

4. How long were you married?
Thirteen years.

uh which one?

1. How long did you know/date your ex-spouse before you moved in together?

Never moved in with him.

2. How long did you know/date each other before getting engaged?

4 years

3. How long did you know/date each other before getting married?

4 years(see above)

4. How long were you married?

Almost 12 years..give or take

For me, exes are a bad subject and I don't talk about that.

1. How long did you know/date your ex-spouse before you moved in together?
went to school with him so I knew him for 10 years/dated 3 years
2. How long did you know/date each other before getting engaged?
3 years
3. How long did you know/date each other before getting married?
5 years
4. How long were you married?
10 years...tooooooooo long

she said how long....snicker

this and "why is it so hard" are my favorite freudian topics.