Looking for women that might be in the same situation as myself. I am 53 married but my wife has been sick for a few years. now. This sickness make her tired unable to get around with the ease she once did. Hurts most of the time and takes meds to ease the pain which makes what she has some what painless. But she spends most of her days in bed . I have some one stay close to her during the day while I am at work. When I get home I clean up for her make her supper and help here get cleaned up and ready for bed. This is what we do each day. I would like to find some one who cares for a sick spouse that understands what I am going trough. I know that there a lot of people out there who will respond to this with al kind of weird answers. So I hope some who is real will get back to me.