How to get over break up?

Age-old question how do I get over a broken heart..
Simple answer is you don't..
You have to go through the process the morning over the person the grief.. the depression the frustration that anger the what ifs... Y..meeeee... this hurts so bad..
I just want them back.. why won't they talk to me... I hate their guts.. I love their guts..
Why does this hurts so bad....
And then after a little time it gets better..
And after a little more time it gets even better..

What helps is positive closure with the person you break up with...
A good clean healthy break.. from each other. Maybe talk with each other over a course of a week or so to ease out of the relationship..

But sadly this does not often happen it's usually hard abrupt and painful.. without closure...

But we do what we always do..
We pull up our boots or pull up your big girl panties.. suck it up swallow hard fight back the tears and get on with your life... because the sun always does come up and things will be better... eventually..
And remember you're probably only missing that person because of certain things and memories you remember.. when you look at the whole person in your mind's eye you're probably not missing all of them just part of them... the hand-holding the soft kisses the nice words so on and so forth..
Let go of those things you remembe..and
hang on to the reason you broke up.. because if it was going to work you would not be apart right now..yes move on