Topic: Relationships
gujjar1999's photo
Tue 09/19/17 06:17 PM
Edited by gujjar1999 on Tue 09/19/17 06:19 PM
Why is it so hard to get over someone that never even loved you? Why is it no one understands your pain? Why is they never understand that when we say I'm Fine it's always a lie? Why is it we've been telling people I'm fine for so long they never even see behind the masks we wear? We get pushed to the limit, we break and we do the same thing over and over again and they still never figure it out. My only question is, Why?

no photo
Thu 09/21/17 05:14 AM
Edited by Nofearinlove on Thu 09/21/17 05:15 AM
I strongly understand your point. I personally think likewise but the truth is that those people never love you possible you are the last person they think of or never think of in a day or their life time. If they don't love you, how will they know your pains or feelings? Is imposible. So, move on as life goes on, love yourself, spend time with those who care about you. Cheer up.

samatvam's photo
Sun 09/24/17 10:54 AM
I think it's better to be yourself - do what you'd like to do, don't do what you don't like, tell openly your likes and dislikes. It doesn't matter what they think of you, the matter is what you think about yourself and how you feel. The influence of others on us depends only on our perceiving.

Crystle's photo
Sun 09/24/17 11:03 AM
I strongly agree with Nofearinlove, when my ex cheated on me (again) I finally realized it had nothing to do with me because I wasn't even a factor in his equation. I wasn't even an afterthought. It was an AH-Haa moment and made moving on a lot easier. Now he is not in my equation.

Toodygirl5's photo
Sun 09/24/17 01:51 PM
Love is a choice! Many choose not to!