people have clicked yes to my mutual match, but am restricted & i cant access/see them. why?
i am also not interested in premium account and even the free offer for the free account yet they restrict me. how do i go about it?

MM is nothing more than a fun way to connect. Always been that way. You have to upgrade to aee who said yes

if you both click yes or maybe, it will show you after the fact...

Just what is Mutual Match?

Mutual Match is a simple and fun way to bring together Mingle2 members that are interested in one another. Here's how it works:

1. If you have not already, upload a photo to your account (you will not be allowed to use Mutual Match if you don't). Next, click the My Account tab and then the Your Mutual Matches link just to the right of where your main photo is.

2. Click the Find New Matches Now button. We'll show you profiles of members who match your search preferences, one at a time.

3. Peruse each member's profile as much (or as little) as you'd like. Then, click the Yes, No, or Maybe button where asked whether you're interested in him or her.

4. If you select "Yes" or "Maybe", we'll blindly show that person your profile the next time he or she looks for new matches through Mutual Match.

5. If the member also expresses interest in you, you have a Mutual Match! We will email both parties alerting you about your new match, and you will see a notification next to the Your Mutual Matches link on your home page.

6. At this point, you will be able to contact your new Mutual Match knowing that you're both interested in one another. With Mutual Match, you can review profiles quickly and easily, and only send messages to people you have a mutual connection with. How simple is that?

FAQs are great

I have 2 mail messages but cannot open them. I have 2 matches and cannot email them what the hell?

the people might have their filters on there email that you can't use, like age or distance filters...

the emails, the person who sent them might have been booted or quit..

There are like 43 people in my Mutual Match that states they want to meet me. If they wanted to "meet me" they would have sent a message and said hello. Its an algo bro. The more I post the more "matches" I get.

Its what these small sites use to get you to pay to look at a few areas or whatever that they paired you with. Nothing more. Its just a script file running in the background on the site.

People who are interested in you looked at your profile. I delete these people all the time. They have no chances of wanting to actually meet you. Some person in Australia is not moving to where I live, and though I have friends in Oz I would never move there.

Its a Forum. Its just meant for fun like any other forum on the web. If these folks was serious about the business they would have given a free month or two for ppl to check out the site. Better business model if you ask me. They can ask me for help. I have built over 100 forums in my day and sold a couple at a nice little profit.

Keep looking and have fun chatting.