This book called "How to Satisfy A Woman Every Time: and have her beg for more!" by Naura Hayden suggests that many married women may resort to cheating because her man is not able to satisfy her. Many women have never had an orgasm in their lives because they have been with sexually inept men.

Each to their own.... but I DO know what love is, and it isn't possession.

DONT ARGUE WITH ME ON THIS LIKE LAST TIME- people cheat for one main reason they feel they missing something. i will not go into detail because last time i explain this 25 pages went in sayin im worng. but this is the reason

I feel just as bad towards the person whom the guy/girl cheated on more then the guy/girl that cheated.Why do people do such a heartless thing is beyond me and I've been cheated on and they always say that their sorry and that they never meant to do it and that they still love you and wanna try again,well I'm sorry.YOUR OUTTA HERE!!! It's sad to see people in realationships and marriages get cheated on day after day and why do they make a huge commitment to be with that person forever,why do they make vows only to break them within a year or two of marriage.I've never cheated because I truly believe it's wrong in doing so.I just think that people who do cheat should be ashamed of doing so cuz in all honesty you know it's wrong and the thing is your hurting the person that truly loved you and wanted to be with you for your life time but your just hurting yourself even more to the point that later on down the road you regret it big time and then it comes back to haunt you when you get cheated on.Why people cheat is beyond me but there's nothing we can do to stop it in this world.

There are so many reasons that people cheat, they say oh I wasn't happy, not sexually satisfied, not happy in relationship, etc...I think most people cheat because they are the most selfish person in the world. My last relationship I thought things were great, we had sex 3, 4, 5 times a day (yeah, everyday) we did all sorts of freaky things and he still stepped out on me. not just the sex but we were friends and i thought life was great, til i found out he was giving what was mine away. He is the reason i am so scared to start another relationship but I am mending and am trying to believe that not all men are like that. If u are contemplating cheating please think twice. It is really one of the most hurtful things you can do to someone you claim to love.

What is cheating?

Who is cheating who?

Is this an online scenario?

Or a real living in the flesh, and the moment scenario?


(((Cheating? Bah!

People can't help who they fall in love with. There is no set in stone, forever and ever, amen, with love.

No expectations.... no disappointments.


Even in a true 'binding' of two people..... life happens. There is no predictable ending, no matter what Hollywood wants us to think there is. ))))


So then we shouldn't even bother getting married. Lets all just have sex, and when you get tired of it then just leave. And like in the rest of the animal world the female can raise the kids while we males go on to the next conquest.
Solves a lot of problems, like paying alimony to someone who cheated from the begining and lied thru her teeth to keep it hidden for a long time.

There are two sides to every coin...one doesn't know what goes on behind closed doors....it's all about she said he said....

Who are we to judge?!...
I'm not saying it's the way to go..however on the flip side of this coin...WE just really don't know the REAL rhyme and reason behind it..
Could be abusive situation...
Not that cheating is the answer..I'll be the first to admitt that it isn't a solution by any means....but when one is caught up in their turoil of emotions..well...'nough said on that one!
Have a GREAT day!!...

oooops spell check...I meant turmoil....sorry

once agian to sum it up people who cheat do it because they feel they are missing something. everything you guys are saying falls into this

I agree with you on that one!!..

damn you need more of a variety than the same cheerios for breakfast everymorning

Very well put!!! I was told by an elder once "you can't trust a person that will cheat on thier spouse. If they will cheat on someone so close, they can stab you in the back at any time". And that is SO TRUE!

Cheaters ARE LIARS! Bill Clinton PERFECT example. I had nothing against the man until he looked into the camera and LIED to all of us. His sex life is his business and that of Hillary and he should have just said "That's my personal life and none of your business". That I could have worked with .. at least then he was not lying to me.

But the "selfishness" rule as pointed out already, fits the bill.

Oh and after reading all the posts, I think some may not be able to seperate consentual sex from cheating.

It's NOT cheating if its consentual between all parties. "Cheating" is when you are deceiving, lying, going behind thier backs, etc.

So just wanted to make that distinction.

lmao

If you need variety... You don't get married.

Cheaters have alot of reasons for cheating, I should say excuses for cheating but none of them are right. If the relationship has been designated by both parties as monogymous that is what it is. No excuse should be allowed to be acceptable once the agreed upon rule has been broken. They gotta go!!!!!!!!