Why is it that when you chat to a few women they always ask why don't we talk somewhere else and I'm thinking have I got mug written on my forehead, there's only one reason they do that and I've had the same answer in a few of them, give you a sob story and then have the frigging cheak to ask for money to help them, a, i don't know you, and b, we've never met before, do me a favour, don't ask can we talk someone else, my talking will be on here so the comments are moderated, can i just have one genuine person replying to my messages, I want a genuine person, is it that hard to find someone.