Topic: What am i doing wrong.
jatho420's photo
Tue 08/15/17 05:44 PM
3What am i doing wrong? I have had a membership for the last month with no connections. Please help

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Tue 08/15/17 06:00 PM
Okay, I see you filled in some of the basics. You only have one photo, add a couple more that show your face. Sunglasses aren't really a good idea for your main picture.

I would add some interests, "I'll tell you later" doesn't get many responses. Write a little more about yourself other than you're a nice guy, most women want to know a little more if they are going to chat with you.

Those are a few things that might help you get more responses. Also keep in mind that when seeking an "intimate encounter", that could decrease your chances quite a bit.

Hope that helps, welcome and good luck.

Oh, one more thing. If you look at your profile picture next to your post here in the forum, it says you've been a member since 08/15/15...so when you chat with someone and tell them you've had a membership for a month, you might want to clarify so you don't appear to be deceitful.

Best wishes to you!


LostBoyD's photo
Tue 08/15/17 06:21 PM
hey man just checked out your profile.I would add a little more too it. And specifically where it says employment add what you do for a living. people see "fun" and they think "yeah right" A potential love interest is going to want to know if you are stable or what kind of situation you are in so they can be prepared. Also A pic without the shades so people can see into your eyes. I know it sounds cheesy but I think people feel like it's more honest. just some thoughts for you.

November1961's photo
Wed 08/16/17 01:08 AM
I totally agree with everyone!

jatho420's photo
Thu 08/17/17 02:55 PM
Thanks! Got a date.

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Sun 08/27/17 02:34 PM

What am i doing wrong?



You're looking online.

You live in Orlando, FFS. You seem to be a healthy reasonably sane and attractive person. Why not try the real world? We meet people during the course of our day, every day. The trick is to know and seize opportunity when it comes knocking.

Reality wins over the internet almost every time.

mzrosie's photo
Sun 08/27/17 03:44 PM

Thanks! Got a date.


Wow! You're one lucky ducky, jatho420.

so, how was your date?

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Sun 08/27/17 04:01 PM

I totally agree with everyone!

Sure you do!

romeo1975's photo
Sun 08/27/17 05:19 PM


What am i doing wrong?



You're looking online.

You live in Orlando, FFS. You seem to be a healthy reasonably sane and attractive person. Why not try the real world? We meet people during the course of our day, every day. The trick is to know and seize opportunity when it comes knocking.

Reality wins over the internet almost every time.


Well then what am I doing wrong LOL