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Topic: I can pick the right girl for you!
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Wed 11/28/07 01:01 AM
There ya go

EVERYONE has Approach Anxiety. Don't worry about it...but just do it. Approaching groups of women is like jumping into a pool at a pool party. You KNOW that the water is COOOOOLD and when you jump in its going to be FREEZING!
But, in order to have fun at the party, you know you gotta get into the pool at some point. So, you JUST DO IT and jump right on in. Sure, youre going to be freezing and shivering for the first few minutes but you get used to it. Later on, when you get OUT of the pool, youre going to uncomfortable from the dramatic temperature change and youre going to be a lot more comfortable jumping back in.
In order to have fun at a social gathering, you know you gotta talk to people at some point. So, JUST DO IT and walk up to a group of people, smile, and "open the set" as the pickup artists say. Sure, it might feel awkward at first but you get used to it. Later on, when you EJECT from that set of people, you may even feel uncomfortable NOT talking to people at the bar/club/party/etc. and youre going to be a lot more comfortable approaching another set.

Have fun and meet people to share the fun!

(oh, and it would be helpful if you approached groups of people that have women in them)

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Wed 11/28/07 01:03 AM
Thats alot to read

JC28WV's photo
Wed 11/28/07 01:08 AM
I got that down to a science--I can talk to anyone anywhere.

THE QUESTION IS" How I can get any girl to like me?

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Wed 11/28/07 01:13 AM
What if I'm not looking for anyone? What if I have everything? What if I can do the matchmaking for myself with the tools available?

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Wed 11/28/07 01:19 AM
I wonder if she can find missing goats too. I sent one on a cheesecake delivery months ago and I haven't seen or heard from him since.grumble

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Wed 11/28/07 01:20 AM
I always wondered why someone would take your picture in the dairy aisle biker!!laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Wed 11/28/07 01:20 AM
ohhhhhhhhhhhhh creepy.......noway laugh noway

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Wed 11/28/07 01:28 AM

I got that down to a science--I can talk to anyone anywhere.

THE QUESTION IS" How I can get any girl to like me?


(Operating from the M3 Model by Mystery)
After the OPENER, which is A1, move onto A2. Now it sounds like your sticking point is in generating attraction in the female-to-male interest stage.
To generate attraction, demonstrate high value. Women respond to social value just as strongly as men respond to good looks.
There are many ways to demonstrate value (WITHOUT BRAGGING - bragging just reveals compensative insecurity). First of all, have your inner game down pat and develop mindsets and belief systems that allow you to see yourself as an alpha male. This will aide you tremendously. If you have inner game like a demigod, you don't need "outer game" and you can attract simply by "being yourself." There are, however, plenty of tips and tricks that can help with outer game, such as effective storytelling that demonstrates that you are a leader of men, preselected by other females, etc etc etc. That's just the tip of the iceberg.
(Operating from David Deangelo's school of thought)
If you are cocky and funny at the same time, you'll find it to be a magical combination, but there must be a balance. Be cocky but be sure to be JUST AS funny. How can you tell if you've got a good balance going? The rule of thumb is that if she is laughing, you aren't being too cocky. It's easy to go overboard one way or the other, and an unbalance can lead to either a smack in the face or a one-way ticket to the friendzone.

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Wed 11/28/07 02:14 AM
haha I see you've been busy Chief

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Wed 11/28/07 04:02 PM
uhhh there is someting behand

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