Topic: DOES TRUE LOVE EXIST??
Milstinz's photo
Tue 08/01/17 02:18 AM
most people say that true is hard to find so it does not even exist at all. some say that it does exist but how? do you believe in it? is it here that you will find by searching here online,,,??
Think about it and give a honest answer..
thank you... cheers.

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Tue 08/01/17 02:54 AM
At last a question I can answer. I met a lady online 20 years ago and I made it work from 1400 miles away. I got to know her really well and it was 2 and a half years before we met for the first time.

For me, there's not a day that goes by that I don't think about her. I screwed up the relationship, although I remained friends with her until 2014. im not a social media person, so I had no idea that she met her future husband in 2015. I talked to her in 2015 and couldn't understand why she pretty much seemed not interested, while I talked to her on the phone. the same thing happened in 2017. email is our last resort now and I will contact her on her birthday in 5 days. I haven't missed one in 20 years and not going to start now. she missed mine last year, for the first time, as my birthday is 6 days behind hers.

I'm having a very hard time dealing with it, as I lost my soul mate and will never find another women like her. I had a very hard time communicating with her. I did quite a few things wrong. For one, I stopped singing to her. I have found that most women like to be serenaded. She knows I still and will for ever love her but some people aren't meant to live with each other. I was the problem, not her. I lost her to one of her friends on facebook.

revilo2017's photo
Tue 08/01/17 05:12 AM
True love does exist and is epitomised in agape love or self-sacrificing love that exists among a few people.

True love exists, but it is not the romantic garbage so often displayed on TV. That is not love, but lust. True love is when a person truly seeks what is best for another person. It is not destroyed by the loved one's actions. It forgives, understands and is patient. The definition of true love is found in the Bible, 1 Corinthians 13 for those who are interested. If it can be combined with romantic love in a married couple, then that makes it even better. True love is a choice. It is not selfish.