Topic: What is God view on sex before marriage
Linda01wells's photo
Fri 07/14/17 09:16 AM
some people be like the need to sex their partner before getting married, what do you think about it friends, are you in support? and how do you think God views it?

Smilealot02's photo
Thu 07/20/17 06:29 PM
God made man and women to be united as "1"! It is or at least for true Christians - not 50-50. Often times if not most times when couples or just friends choose to have sex before marriage - this is before the couple has been fully united!

God did not create us so we could have fun with one and when get tired or ready to move on just to close the door! There is so much more!!! A true marriage is to mate for life and this is why it is important to really get to know the other person and them you. It can really make a difference!


kimberlylarae's photo
Sun 08/06/17 10:52 PM
God wrote the book on it (it's called the Bible and it tells you everything you need to know about fornication--the sin of sex before marriage) and I'm writing another that's based on the first one. God doesn't make rules just to hear Himself talk. Every rule and law of God is made to protect us, to keep us from getting hurt, to protect the man and to protect the woman, and to protect any innocent children who may come of this union. They are also to protect society. I'm not getting all in your face, I'm just telling it like it is. There's so many reasons to wait until the wedding night. And it's so hard. But it's SO worth it. We, in this age of science, are discovering more things all the time about why God made sex just for marriage. Like a woman's body can absorb her husbands DNA. So that in a sense, we really become one with our husbands. (And also the DNA belonging to men that 6 months from now you may not even like. Which is never God's will). Our husband's semen absorbed, again, through intercourse, can actually protect his wife from various illnesses--especially depression. Why? Because depression, more than anything else, can lead to unhappy marriages and divorce and God hates divorce. So this is why God tells us in the bible to never neglect our married sex lives. Also, the sex hormones released by intercourse bonds a husband and wife. These are the same hormones that bond a mother to her newborn baby. And this is why breaking up with someone after having sex with them hurts so much. And if we do this time after time, our bodies stop releasing the hormone, and we can no longer bond with a man (or a man to a woman) or even our children. Our bodies try to protect us from getting hurt again. Premarital sex leads to a high rate of divorce. We are not sure why, but a major strike against us is not a good way to start a marriage. Women who are virgin, or at the very least, wait to have sex with their current man until marriage have a far lower chance of divorce. Everything we can do to ensure a good strong happy successful marriage is worth doing. Why? Because divorce means no more sex until your spouse dies. Yup. Read Matthew 19. Also, and this says it all, http://www.desiringgod.org/articles/divorce-remarriage-a-position-paper