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Topic: a matter of choice
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Mon 07/10/17 08:52 AM


thank you all . our choices define who we are...we just have to make the right one i guess.


I feel we are defined by our actions, not choices. More so the "actions" we take when we know nobody's watching.

Mull that one over.

we decide our course of action therefore we choosethink mulled it overtongue2

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Mon 07/10/17 04:06 PM




thank you all . our choices define who we are...we just have to make the right one i guess.


I feel we are defined by our actions, not choices. More so the "actions" we take when we know nobody's watching.

Mull that one over.

we decide our course of action therefore we choosethink mulled it overtongue2


Ever "choose" to go to the movies with someone and then, not go? Something like that would consider a person untrue to their word.

In other words, people can make choices to do/say/be/arrive/meet/talk/whisper/whatever on certain things, but until the "Doing" gets done with a form of action (procrastination) or in a timely manner (reliable) or even at all (true to your word)....the definition remains to be unseen.

We are defined by our actions, choices are made before any action takes place. Some are called "Lazy" over it.

i retreat lolrofl

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Mon 07/10/17 07:17 PM
I don't think love is a choice!

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Wed 09/06/17 01:49 PM
I'd look for someone I nearly hated but could sleep with regularly casual styles

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Wed 09/06/17 02:28 PM

... if I love u... you're mine....



That's not scary at all...


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Wed 09/06/17 02:41 PM




The 1st most important thing in life, is to love someone.
The 2nd most important thing in life, is to have someone love you.
The 3rd most important thing in life, is to have the first two ... happen at the same time, lol

Good luck to us all.



i think this says it all

and i would rather keep trying to get the timing right than waiting single and alone for it to bump into me

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Thu 09/07/17 11:13 PM





The 1st most important thing in life, is to love someone.
The 2nd most important thing in life, is to have someone love you.
The 3rd most important thing in life, is to have the first two ... happen at the same time, lol

Good luck to us all.



i think this says it all

and i would rather keep trying to get the timing right than waiting single and alone for it to bump into me

yes , equal love does not really happen and it takes time . how long do we keep on trying? which would we rather have ? somebody loving us more therefore we reciprocate or someone we love that we are not sure if he/she loves us back in the same way. when there are more questions than answers , do we just feel and ignore what we think as long as we are happy?

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Fri 09/08/17 03:21 PM






The 1st most important thing in life, is to love someone.
The 2nd most important thing in life, is to have someone love you.
The 3rd most important thing in life, is to have the first two ... happen at the same time, lol

Good luck to us all.



i think this says it all

and i would rather keep trying to get the timing right than waiting single and alone for it to bump into me

yes , equal love does not really happen and it takes time . how long do we keep on trying? which would we rather have ? somebody loving us more therefore we reciprocate or someone we love that we are not sure if he/she loves us back in the same way. when there are more questions than answers , do we just feel and ignore what we think as long as we are happy?



jades got it right on the button. love is NOT quantifiable like we spend the same amount of money on each other. giving your love would be the right one. as for how long as long as one of you doesn't get to not loving the other. there is not a scale that can possibly balance the two

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Fri 09/08/17 07:53 PM


I've been in love with someone who loved me before I realized I loved them as much but by then they fell out of love with me.. if that's possible...lol... I've never been with someone I've loved and they have not loved me back... I've been with someone who loved me before I love them.. only because it takes me awhile to truly give myself to love... and here's the hard part... you can't fall in love with someone until you spend time with them.. and usually by the time you realize you're not going to fall in love with them.. you've spent so much time with them... it's hard to break things off..

Some people have no problem.. saying goodbye to other people.... I myself find it difficult to do..


The 1st most important thing in life, is to love someone.
The 2nd most important thing in life, is to have someone love you.
The 3rd most important thing in life, is to have the first two ... happen at the same time, lol

Good luck to us all.
. And the fourth most important thing is big boobies..lol..jk.

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Sat 09/09/17 03:34 AM



I've been in love with someone who loved me before I realized I loved them as much but by then they fell out of love with me.. if that's possible...lol... I've never been with someone I've loved and they have not loved me back... I've been with someone who loved me before I love them.. only because it takes me awhile to truly give myself to love... and here's the hard part... you can't fall in love with someone until you spend time with them.. and usually by the time you realize you're not going to fall in love with them.. you've spent so much time with them... it's hard to break things off..

Some people have no problem.. saying goodbye to other people.... I myself find it difficult to do..


The 1st most important thing in life, is to love someone.
The 2nd most important thing in life, is to have someone love you.
The 3rd most important thing in life, is to have the first two ... happen at the same time, lol

Good luck to us all.
. And the fourth most important thing is big boobies..lol..jk.

you forgot your kleenex phd lol bigsmile

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Sun 10/01/17 11:18 PM
if I love u... you're mine~ well, I am a outer beauty person so....depends~

that is scary .... sorta me tarzan you jane followed by a hit on the head surprised

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Thu 10/19/17 09:54 PM
and i choose YOU smitten

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Fri 10/20/17 04:15 AM
In this "high energy" world;love;in general;must be 50/50;not less than that in all fields. It's called "sentimental justice"

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Sun 10/22/17 11:30 PM
still... YOUlove

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Sun 10/22/17 11:42 PM


I think I would just settle for a puppy instead..smile2

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Wed 10/25/17 08:26 AM
Its not a choice to love that person,
Its not choice to hurt someone,
Because anything happened unexpected. Weather we like it or not unexpected will happened.

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Wed 10/25/17 06:16 PM

thank you all . our choices define who we are...we just have to make the right one i guess.

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