Topic: Do you care what other people think of you?
peggy122's photo
Sun 06/25/17 03:30 PM

Yes when you get older opinions don't matter much. As someone said "What you think of me is none of my business" or the people that mind don't matter, and the ones who matter don't mind.


thats a great mantra to have ladyfabulousity :)

no photo
Sun 06/25/17 03:58 PM
Simple no.

peggy122's photo
Tue 06/27/17 03:31 AM
Thats impressive cheerioso :)

yehk's photo
Wed 06/28/17 06:09 PM
We, as a human beings, are a sum of :1) what we think of ourselves that others do not know; 2) what we think of ourselves that others are also thinking about us; 3) what others think about us that we do not know; and 4) what others think about us that we thought about ourselves also.

For me, others opinions are very important because it could shape our totality as a person. Either it is positive or negative, it would then depend upon us if how we are going to deal with it. If someone tells us we are useless, are we just going to prove them right or are we going to prove them wrong? However, it is very important though that we know better of ourselves.
If we think other people' s opinionswould benefit us why not listen and
make use of it to make us a better version of ourselves. if not, then do not consider it though. Bottomline is we should know how to filter opinion. Good or bad, both could be beneficial depending on the reception of the person.

no photo
Wed 06/28/17 07:18 PM
My animal spirit these days is looking like that of an elephant.

peggy122's photo
Thu 06/29/17 04:40 AM

Nope, people either like you or they don't. I'm to old to change my ways anyway. What counts is...I am happy with myself.


Age does have a way of gibing us a different kind of boldness lastonepicked :)

peggy122's photo
Thu 06/29/17 04:43 AM

We, as a human beings, are a sum of :1) what we think of ourselves that others do not know; 2) what we think of ourselves that others are also thinking about us; 3) what others think about us that we do not know; and 4) what others think about us that we thought about ourselves also.

For me, others opinions are very important because it could shape our totality as a person. Either it is positive or negative, it would then depend upon us if how we are going to deal with it. If someone tells us we are useless, are we just going to prove them right or are we going to prove them wrong? However, it is very important though that we know better of ourselves.
If we think other people' s opinionswould benefit us why not listen and
make use of it to make us a better version of ourselves. if not, then do not consider it though. Bottomline is we should know how to filter opinion. Good or bad, both could be beneficial depending on the reception of the person.


Very balanced way of looking at yehik flowerforyou

peggy122's photo
Thu 06/29/17 05:50 AM

My animal spirit these days is looking like that of an elephant.



Im not very familiar with the ethos of an elephant integrity
Do they give a damn? what

no photo
Thu 06/29/17 07:08 AM


My animal spirit these days is looking like that of an elephant.



Im not very familiar with the ethos of an elephant integrity
Do they give a damn? what

Oh yes!
More information can be found on the 'elephants lives matter 'thread laugh

peggy122's photo
Thu 06/29/17 07:25 AM



My animal spirit these days is looking like that of an elephant.



Im not very familiar with the ethos of an elephant integrity
Do they give a damn? what

Oh yes!
More information can be found on the 'elephants lives matter 'thread laugh

laugh
Well if the elephants erected a whole activist movement around their lives , then they probably do give a damn , huh mikey? laugh

no photo
Thu 06/29/17 07:28 AM




My animal spirit these days is looking like that of an elephant.



Im not very familiar with the ethos of an elephant integrity
Do they give a damn? what

Oh yes!
More information can be found on the 'elephants lives matter 'thread laugh

laugh
Well if the elephants erected a whole activist movement around their lives , then they probably do give a damn , huh mikey? laugh


laugh now that would be a protest March to see in town surprised

peggy122's photo
Thu 06/29/17 12:25 PM





My animal spirit these days is looking like that of an elephant.



Im not very familiar with the ethos of an elephant integrity
Do they give a damn? what

Oh yes!
More information can be found on the 'elephants lives matter 'thread laugh

laugh
Well if the elephants erected a whole activist movement around their lives , then they probably do give a damn , huh mikey? laugh


laugh now that would be a protest March to see in town surprised



No disagreement from me ! :)

navygirl's photo
Thu 06/29/17 11:54 PM
Nope. I have never cared what people think of me. I am an adult not an over sensitive teenager.

peggy122's photo
Fri 06/30/17 07:41 PM

Nope. I have never cared what people think of me. I am an adult not an over sensitive teenager.



You re a bold one navy girl. Im not quite there yet :)

no photo
Sat 07/01/17 05:29 AM
NO.

no1phD's photo
Sat 07/01/17 06:54 AM
Yes !..in some way some small way!. I think it does matter what people think of us...
Everyone wants to be liked and thought fondly of.. no one wants to imagine.. their own funeral and no one attending..
So yes it's important what people think ...I need people to like me.... they must like me!.. they have to like me!.. why don't they like me?.. what's the matter with me?... I'm awesome what's not to like!.. (((damnit people)))) just like me..!!..ok.. please like me.. pretty pretty please.. okay !if you like me ..I will get you a chocolate bar....((come on))... I need you to like meeeeeeeee....
Ok... I'm going to hold my breath until you like me........lmao..ok.. I guess it's okay if some of you don't like me
.... but the rest of you !..better like me a lot...lol.wink...

no photo
Sat 07/01/17 07:23 AM

NO. meaning i like me and would never ever change for anyone.

no photo
Sat 07/01/17 10:40 AM
I just had a think, or should I say thought lol
The higher up the financial ladder you are the less you care what people think!
Well?

peggy122's photo
Sun 07/02/17 05:43 PM

Yes !..in some way some small way!. I think it does matter what people think of us...
Everyone wants to be liked and thought fondly of.. no one wants to imagine.. their own funeral and no one attending..
So yes it's important what people think ...I need people to like me.... they must like me!.. they have to like me!.. why don't they like me?.. what's the matter with me?... I'm awesome what's not to like!.. (((damnit people)))) just like me..!!..ok.. please like me.. pretty pretty please.. okay !if you like me ..I will get you a chocolate bar....((come on))... I need you to like meeeeeeeee....
Ok... I'm going to hold my breath until you like me........lmao..ok.. I guess it's okay if some of you don't like me
.... but the rest of you !..better like me a lot...lol.wink...


I like that you are honest about caring Doc. A lot of people prefer not to admit it :)

peggy122's photo
Sun 07/02/17 05:43 PM


NO. meaning i like me and would never ever change for anyone.



Bold move there Lu :)