Topic: thoughts and opinions
shadow_princess's photo
Sun 11/25/07 02:38 AM
this is a bit of a weird situation and im not sure what to do so i thought i'd see what yall think


ok so most of yall know im in a wheelchair right? well so is my ex he was born with cerebral palsy too yet the whole time we dated he made me feel like **** he frequently told me how ugly nasty and helpless i am compared to him like he thought he was god compared to me he even told me numerous times i should just kill myself because i was worthless nice guy huh? but anyways he called me and when i was like why do you constantly insult me if you love me so damn much and you wanna be friends? he said he put me down because he didnt know how to say i love you my question for yall is are there guys who really use insults to substitute i love you? even just as friends or should i just say screw you your a lier?

OrangeCat's photo
Sun 11/25/07 02:47 AM
well sweetie all I can say and hope u listen is leave him because the only guys who use insults for any thing are just no good azzholes.


so in my honest opinion u deserve so much better so u need to leave him behind.flowerforyou flowerforyou

shadow_princess's photo
Sun 11/25/07 02:52 AM
we arent together but he was begging for my friendship so i dont know...

Jtevans's photo
Sun 11/25/07 02:57 AM
i don't know but he sounds like an @$$hole to me.just tell him to get his wheelchair stuck in the mud and forget him

aje26's photo
Sun 11/25/07 02:59 AM
Why do you need someone around who makes you feel like crap? Sounds like a classic case of him blowing out your flame to make his burn brighter. Don't be a punching bag for somebody else's insecurities! Friends are supposed to brighten up your world...not send it crashing down everytime you talk to them.

*hug*

OrangeCat's photo
Sun 11/25/07 03:00 AM
in my opinion u need to tell him to go stick it where the sun dont shine,really even if he is or isnt begging he has already shown that is a azzhole u need to just say no its his loss for being like he was.

shadow_princess's photo
Sun 11/25/07 03:12 AM
yea i kinda planned on tellin him to go screw himself but it sounded too harsh but yall dont think so?

OrangeCat's photo
Sun 11/25/07 03:23 AM
was it not to harsh when he was doing all he did to u????


answer that and u have your answerflowerforyou

no photo
Sun 11/25/07 03:28 AM
He's an assshole,,,and NOT a man for YOU!
YOU can find ALOT better than ANYMAN who wishes to bash you with insults,AND CALL "THAT" LOVE....BULLSH-TTTTT...

:heart: Anyone who LOVES another, CAN'T HURT THEM,,,EVEN THROUGH WORDS...Or THEY, ARE TWISTED, in their freakin head.....

shadow_princess's photo
Sun 11/25/07 03:29 AM
good point OC yea hes toast bigsmile

MicheleNC's photo
Sun 11/25/07 03:29 AM
What OrangeCat said...ditto from me. You deserve better even in a friend.

Hugs, M