The longer I am on this site the more i notice more and more married women looking for friends. Is this a dateing site or a social networking site? I thought that it was a dating site. If you are married or engaged or whatever why are you on a dating site to find friends? Isn't Myspace and Facebook and Myyearbook and Fubar and ect ect are for? I am tired of getting my hopes up only to realize that you are just looking for friends, cuz I have enough of those in real life its getting past that point I have trouble with lol.

it's a dating site with a SUPERB social networking aspect that is open to anyone! single or not!

I've made a great many friends here on JSH... and the fact that I am engaged doesn't mean I should bow out. The forums are great and the advice/support people give is really appreciated. I'm up front. I tell everyone "Friends Only" and my entire profile states that I am getting married soon. I am being honest... and I see nothing wrong with intermingling with people on a social basis.

The name of the website is "just say hi" not "just here to find a date". There's nothing wrong with women or men coming on here to make friends. Maybe if you read their profile and not just looked at their pictures maybe you wouldn't get your hopes up.

oh and its etc. not ect

cdady thanx for making me look like a jackass lol

Yes, it is a dating site. But it's also a place to go just to hang out, make friends, laugh together, cry together, and become close.

I have talked to Mike, about if I have to leave JSH when I get married. He said that I didn't have to after the marriage.

It is not our fault that you cannot read a whole profile before you start getting excited and having your hopes dashed.

Patience will take you far young grasshopper.

Its actually a friend/networking/dating site!!!

Hello there......it is not only women but you will also find married men on here looking for "friends" or "more".

This is a site to meet people, and some of us are blessed to have found the person of our dreams right here on this site. Once we do, why should we have to be pushed off the site???? We have made friends on here that are more special to some of us than our own families. The people on here have helped me thru some pretty tough times and I don't want to turn my back on them.

Just like some people have some tough preferences, that you might not live up to, some of us are taken and stay here to show others that it is possible and that this site does work. Good luck in your endeavors.

Girl!!!!! that ring is beautiful!!!!!

sorry dude. that was my first post too. i was just givin you a hard time.

Thank you Miss Fine.......I just came back from out your way!!!!!! I spent a week with Captain and I didn't want to leave!!

If I do find that special lady here or offline I will still be a member here. If I find her offline then I will get her to join and actively post in forums.

Hmmmm now i cant help but wonder why it would bother u or ne 1 else why someone is on this site.whats wrong with the word coexist!

Its ok dude. I didn't know this would turn into a big controversy I was just asking a question.

Sweetie, once you have been with the one you have spent your whole life looking for, you NEVER want to leave his side.

I know how you feel, pachelabaro came down here and I will not let him leave!!!!

Hey there
Does one not want to be friends with the one they date? It seems to me to make things go a bit smoother to be friends first then progress from there. Can you imagine just dating people who are not friends in some way or another?
Hope you find who you are looking for.

We all start out as individuals prior to meeting our mates... let us not forget that in order to grow healthy as a couple, we must also grow individually as ourselves. NOT giving up my friends. NOT giving up being me. My guy accepts that... and if HE can accept it... no one else has any right to say anything.

AMEN singing... you said it. Too many people forget who they are when they get into a relationship. Its always about the other person.

Oh, and Tobias..... this isn't a controversy, this is a place for discussion and meeting new people.... and that is just what you are doing....meeting new people....