Ladies if wants to get your husband's attention, just look sad & uncomfortable
Gentleman if wants to get your wife's attention, just look comfortable & happy....!!

actually I have observed that it is quite true among couples women tend to worry when they notice their husbands look happy, what's going on!? and husbands do worry when women look sad.... Probably they know their husband's monkey business

True, it's like if a guy for no reason buys flowers, she'll think, what's he feeling guilty for, he must be up to something

have you bought flowers for your partner before?

so that why the ex seemed angry all the time

Totally bull

When I was in a relationship yes but not because I'd done anything wrong

Ooh how sweet are you quite sure you've done nothing wrong? Usually men show sweetness when they are guilty of something... but guilty or not, women appreciate the good gesture and easily melts,

Could it be a psyche war? A Reverse psychology? When a man is guilty of something he blames the girl. A girl becomes the object of displacement....or is it a cover up somehow? sometimes men Don't like to see a girl happy after their break up, he would rather want the girl to feel miserable. When a girl is happy, a man gets afraid the girl will fall out of love and will eventually move on oh why, it's kindah confusing sometimes

This type of behavior tend to be a tool created to reflect personal feeling onto the other person in the relationship. Signal of being insecure. The relationship is base on trust and love. When people drive themselves to this behavior they are not in love. Meaning, cheating, doing what is consider bad behaviour. Now we need to keep the relationship going and sometimes we sort on indirect behaviors to look for some signal on awareness.

Sometimes indirect approach could be taken in a different way by another person. The signals you expect to find might not happen depending on how that person deal with the situation. It is better to be direct or straight forward , put everything in black and white. If there is a need to talk, lay down the cards, say what you both gotta say to each other. Be honest, frank and open, communication is still the best tool in order to avoid misunderstandings. If you've done something wrong, apologize or if not , ask what have you done wrong and talk about it. Don't just talk but listen carefully too and understand each other

Well said, I do not need to say more.

Cheer up! Don't be too serious... you seemed a bit uptight, Loosen up Cheeriosoo!

Cheers, Cheeriosoo!

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