Hi! And welcome to my Individuality Test. When we get in to relationships with others, it can be easy to lose our individuality. I think maintaining our individuality is important in having a good opinion of ourselves. This test is to see if you respect individuality in yourself and others. Can you be with someone and still be yourself as well as allowing them to be themselves? Take the quiz and find out.
1. Your date happens to like a type of music you've never particularly cared for. While playing it in the car, you ask him/her.........
What the hell are you listening to?
That sounds interesting, who is it?
I don't like that, can we listen to something we both like?
If you like it, I guess I can too.

2. You and your mate are in bed together. You just started having sex when he/she does something that hurts too much. Do you....
Swear and pull away scowling
Moan and bear it
Respectfully ask them to be more gentle
Dig your nails in, two can play this game

3. You are the one who has a head for finance in your relationship. You know you and your mate could live better if you set up a budget together and got serious about it. Upon suggesting this to your mate they reply....
Why so you can monitor everything I buy?
We live paycheck to paycheck, what difference would it make?
Why don't you go ahead and do whatever you want?
Why don't we sit down together and figure it out?

4. You and your mate are alone for the evening and he/she wants to watch sports on TV. Your reaction?
Why don't I I sit with you and just do my own thing?
I hate watching sports, let's go to a movie instead?
You did that lastnight, can't we do something different?
If you are doing that, I'm going to bed.

5. You decide to make a nice meal for the two of you. While preparing it, your mate keeps you company in the kitchen. Their comments as you cook....
Why don't you use the bigger pan for that?
Can I help you with anything?
Shouldn't you add a little (insert any ingredient)?
Don't use that towel, it's for drying your hands!

6. You have an evening set aside to go out with friends. That evening comes and your mate responds......
Don't worry about me (sarcastically), go have fun.
Why can't I come with you?
That's ok, I'll stay here alone and bored.
I'll miss you

7. You and your mate are getting gussied up for a night out. As you are getting ready he/she says to you.....
Why don't you wear less makeup/hair gel etc.?
You're wearing that?
This is fun, we should do ourselves up more often.
Why don't you put on a little cologne/perfume?

8. You and your mate are going on a road trip. They started off the trip driving and you offer to take over. Their reaction.....
I don't think so (but they guilt-trip you later for not driving)
Um, I don't really like the way you drive, maybe if you slow down.
No way, you scare me when you drive.
Hey, yeah, that would be great.

I think Ive been married to you...

i'd start at the shirt and work on the mop on top as well get crackin so u can get to smackin

30-40 points: you understand and respect individuality in yourself and others. 15-29 points: you c0mpromise quite a bit on your own individuality and expect your mate to do the same. 0-14 points: you completely lose yourself in relationships and expect your mate to do the same. If you happen to break up you end up asking yourself "Who was I again?"

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