How do you get a woman to realize that the one person she has spent her whole life looking for is right in the front of her and also make her realize shes not what people have made her think she is over the years.

ummmm actions

actions work! but a conversation would be good too!

ummmmmmmmmm show her you care in ways like........remembering the date of her birthday......the first time you kissed.......

If you mean self esteem??? That only comes from within and she has to get that on her own...

you can tell and show her till you are blue in the face, but she has to see it for herself in her own time.

its not about logical realizations, buddy. it's about feeling.

and she dont mean feling the tits

Lmao Darn

Actually, it is the conversation, but it is also more than that. See, she could be feeling the same about you, but she is too "shy" to do anything about it. Or she is waiting on you to say something. And if you wait too long, she could decide to give up and move on. And if that happens, then you live with the regret of never telling her how you felt. And that sucks.

I am guessing there is a friendship here, and am also guessing that it scares you to make the leap to tell her your true feelings because it would jeopardize that friendship. Well, ask yourself (and I think you already know the answer)....Is it worth the risk? I think it is my man. If you feel that strongly towards her, then you have to tell her. Even, if for some chance, she says no to you, you did tell her. It will hurt, but nowhere near as bad as if you did not tell her. Regret stings for life. A rejection (so to speak) doesn't last that long cause you will meet someone else down the road.

Get her alone, just the two of you, no distractions. And then tell her what you feel.