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Get a Test!
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im in college
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Edited by
itsnicoleelyse
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Thu 11/22/07 10:28 PM
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i am clean thanks although that has to do with absolutly nothing
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i clean thanks that has to do with nothen No offense, but perhaps you need to focus a little harder on your collegiate studies and less on your "love-life". |
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true dat
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i do again im not stupid i had a question about relationship stuff i thought this is what this group was for but i get ****ted on for asking a question i mean damn
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ok live by my rule when it's over don't go back just keep moving on, the past is gone!
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I am simply assuming, but from some of your statements I am getting the feeling that you were lacking love as a child and perhaps men are a way to try and fill a void in your life?.....
Looking for love in all the wrong places. It is good to learn who you are and learn to process any unresolved emptiness befor allowing a man to enter your life, bed, etc..... |
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I am simply assuming, but from some of your statements I am getting the feeling that you were lacking love as a child and perhaps men are a way to try and fill a void in your life?..... Looking for love in all the wrong places. It is good to learn who you are and learn to process any unresolved emptiness befor allowing a man to enter your life, bed, etc..... thank u for having the best advice in here i appreciate it |
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I am simply assuming, but from some of your statements I am getting the feeling that you were lacking love as a child and perhaps men are a way to try and fill a void in your life?..... Looking for love in all the wrong places. It is good to learn who you are and learn to process any unresolved emptiness befor allowing a man to enter your life, bed, etc..... thank u for having the best advice in here i appreciate it |
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Advice: men come and go but you will have to live with YOU the rest of your life. Go out and live for a few years. Get an education. Travel.
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Lily speaks with much maturity and wisdom - great advices.
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if you want to have a boyfriend look the other way that you have been looking. instead of the loud popular guy try the quite one. never know he might be the right one for you
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TY, Roadie.......
Nicole, anytime. I am here if you need anything. We have all had the trials and tribulations you are experiencing now. May not have been the same situation with all of us, but we ALL have something...... |
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hun, you are merely 18 years old! i agree with alot of people on here: i.e. worry about college, travel, and lily, well, lily gave you awesome advice. The only thing I can tell you is something that was told to me: you need to realize your self worth. and DARE them to find someone better! make sure they respect you for who you are and not what it is you have to offer them. and remember that before you can make anyone happy (and definately before you can fully commit to a relationship) you must be happy with yourself first! Settle for nothing more than what you know you want! Dont just use those little boys out there to pass the time! You have more room in your bed if you sleep alone! When you're ready, you'll know.
And just a little more...the nice guys are the ones you want! Especially when you're ten years older than you are now! You'll be asking yourself "where the he** are all the good guys" sweetie, you let them slip right out of your hands! Love yourself, respect yourself, and always be true to yourself! |
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thanks everyone
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Bravo, SDM! Couldn't have said it any better......
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I only speak from my own experiences. If I knew this place was around ten years ago, trust, I would be asking for advice too! TY lily
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Advices should be given in positive and constructive structure, not in judgmental haste. Lily and SDM are showing great examples - bravo!
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now im not the home wrecking type but for somereason i continued to see him... then i dated a guy broke up with him cuz he was too sweet... so im talken to a guy and i know hes a no good scum bag but i just cant seem to get over the fact that now i know what i want.. my question is... do i in some how deserve this do i set myself up... I wouldn't say you deserve it, but you DO set yourself up. Just the parts I quoted there kinda show that. The real question is why? I can't answer the why, but I can give you some free advice to take or leave: - Don't run from sweet guys...and don't chase scumbags. This is one of those dumb things ALL women do. It isn't your fault, it has to do with running modern society's values through a brain chemistry that hasn't changed in 40,000 years. The trick is to step back, and see yourself doing it so you can stop. - Demand respect. You deserve happyness and someone who treats you right, but YOU have to believe that before anyone else will. - Scumbags can smell vulnerability. It's the only way they can get a woman. So maybe invest a little more time in your friends, get a more stable social base, and they can help you filter the scumbags out. LISTEN TO THEM! - If you know something is a bad idea, but you're doing it anyway... STOP DOING IT! lol Yeah, I'm probably the last one who should be giving dating advice. But I've seen some of your posts, and you seem like a nice girl is just a little lost right now. Thats how life goes, sometimes you're up, sometimes you're down, but the wheel keeps moving. So just hang in there and NEVER forget that you deserve to be happy. It will happen. |
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