in my humble opinion face-to-face is best for exploring potential unions between men and women...

deception is much harder to disguise...

learning body language/posture helps...

the eyes are the window of the soul...

experience - (the burnt hand teaches best. after that, advise about fire is best remembered)

"everybody thats in your arms don't love you...everybody that you hold to your bosom isn't there to bless you."
[partial quote by T.D. Jakes from the sermon 'In the Fire']

"nobody love me but my mother....and she could be jiving too."
[B.B.King]