Hey. I'm seriously going thru the ringer right now. Ladies 4 ladies that are looking to chat. I could sure use some conversation

Ohhh.. buddy right now the last person you want to talk to is a woman..
First thing she's going to tell you to do is get divorced.. second thing she's going to do is ask you what you did wrong in the relationship.. and believe me... know matter what you say from that point on she will always think it was your fault.....
And then she's going to side with your ex-wife on everything..lol.

So you might as well kiss that relationship goodbye...lol..
What you want to do is get your friends together get dressed up..
Get liquored up.. go have a night of fun with your friends.. and then go home and cry very loudly into your pillow until you have no more tears left..ok... then go find a woman to talk to you..lol

no 1's right...well, partly at least about his advice to go hang with the guys. But basically the last thing a woman wants is to listen to a guy who's going through the wringer with his separation. Most don't want to spend time having a conversation with a guy about another woman. If you need conversation with a woman, maybe talk to your mom, auntie, grandma, pastors wife, sister, etc...

..psst psst. I think op is a girl.

Shhhh.. let's just keep it between us..ok..wink.. but I could be wrong I didn't check the profile..oops

You're right, Sorry RedJax. The same thing though, only find guys to talk to. Trying to have conversation with other woman when you're vulnerable can only lead to more problems.

Thanks for the advice!!!! This is so difficult. But I guess i need to heal up before talking to any one new

Thanks for the advice!!!! This is so difficult. But I guess i need to heal up before talking to any one new

lol yeah I'm a girl. Thank you for the advice. You're totally right.

Yup jumping out of the skillet right into the fire is a rookie relationship move that will only add way more drama to your life not less.

Hang in there. Stick around the forums, it will help get your mind off things. We have a lot of fun here. Welcome to Mingle2 btw.

pretty common move
jumping from one to another

in fact, many do this before even ending one that they are in

Monkey Branching
when a girl already has a boyfriend but she gives her number to guys that she meets and flirts as if she were single. she's basically branching off from her boyfriend and establishing backups.

Branches that are doomed to break out from under them because relationships that grow up on the sly are poisoned from the start like moldy wood it won't burn or ever keep you warm..