I've noticed on a lot of profiles here on JSH, ladies say that if you're going to e-mail them to please write a decent letter. None of that "I'm interested. Write back." one line notes. The ladies here want a real letter, one that we guys actually put some thought and effort into. Well, fine by me. I'm a writer at heart anyway, so I don't mind sending a long letter, correct sentence structure, spelling, ect.

Here's the problem. After sending these thoughtful letters:

NO RESPONSE WHATSOEVER! Not even a "Sorry, not interested".

Ladies, why do you ask us to write a nice introductory letter, then don't even bother to respond? Even a short "Thanks, but no thanks" is better than nothing.

a hi how are you is fine by me...

Hi Jamie , How are you?

I'll second that. Some women have gone as far as picking me as a "Mutual Match" so I write something nice but do not get a reply.

I have never written anything that would not be considered nice, nor have I ever written anything that would be considered out of line.

I will admit that it has not happened to me many times but I reply to ALL messages. It does not matter who sends them.

Just my .02

sometimes I don't reply, but its never out of trying to be rude...lol, I'm just absent minded. Sometimes I read all my emails then go back and reply, some get skipped over by mistake that way...

Hi jayme