There was a white girl once in the library I was very attracted to, but you know I'm completely cowardly with my desires, I didn't want anyone to see that I was looking at her. She was sitting with her friends, doing drawing and I wanted to suggest a book I thought would help her, (yeah right).

But you know what I did, I waited, waited till her friends had left, before I spoke to her. I didn't want her friends seeing me talk to her. Why sneak about? Why not talk to her in the presence of her friends?

Afterward I thought to myself "you coward" That was so cowardly and sneaky.

You didn't say whether you got a date!

I'm your big brother, I'm just ****! I never chatted a girl up, they gotta chat me up. I must be thick as ***, I just can't tell if a girl likes me! I just don't get it. Lol

I remember being shy when I was younger. No point in going to a disco and asking one of a group of girls for a dance - all they did was giggle and want to know the reason why I asked that girl and not one of her friends.

Now that I'm older I just don't care and chat naturally with anyone, male or female. The unattractive women, like the men, are just people to chat with. Slightly different approach (more careful what I say) to someone I find attractive!