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Topic: curious what their EX partner looked like
no1phD's photo
Wed 04/05/17 06:09 PM

of course... male instincts... you want to see if you are better looking then him

And even if your not, you will find some flaw in his looks...just to convince yourself that your are better

That's what we men do

..no. not necessarily if they're better looking I think that's great..
I then wonder if I'm good enough looking.. but then I realize I am pretty awesome.. and confident in who I am..lol.. so why wouldn't she want to be with me... of course I would like it if their ex-husband wasn't as good looking but if he is..ohh well.. sometimes personality is better than looks

no photo
Wed 04/05/17 06:23 PM
I myself never worry if the ex is better looking than me or not. Trinidad is full of lovely women. If I obsessed over beauty comparisons, I would have killed myself years ago.

And I dont think there is a person out there, who wouldn't take a peak of the ex's picture

no photo
Wed 04/05/17 06:31 PM

I myself never worry if the ex is better looking than me or not. Trinidad is full of lovely women. If I obsessed over beauty comparisons, I would have killed myself years ago.

And I dont think there is a person out there, who wouldn't take a peak of the ex's picture


Of course soo.. everyone would take a peek. She (or he) pops into the bathroom to get ready to go out with you.. you flip the pic over and take a look...automatic.

abhi221296's photo
Thu 04/06/17 01:04 PM
hello

abhi221296's photo
Thu 04/06/17 01:04 PM
hello

no photo
Thu 04/06/17 03:57 PM

I would turn it over...then ask her for a Sharpie, so you can touch it up a little.shades


laugh laugh laugh

no photo
Thu 04/06/17 03:58 PM
I get up and leave.

SitkaRains's photo
Thu 04/06/17 03:59 PM
I guess I am all that not curious I dont snoop so I wouldnt see the picture in the first place.

As for pictures of my Ex there are snap shots in Photo albums it is a part of life.

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Thu 04/06/17 04:06 PM

I guess I am all that not curious I dont snoop so I wouldnt see the picture in the first place.

As for pictures of my Ex there are snap shots in Photo albums it is a part of life.


I'm the same, I wouldn't want to look. However, there a difference between having photos in a frame and having them in an album. If the photos of an ex are still out and about in frames. I getting out of there, they've still got open wounds and healing to be getting on with. I'm not staying to become part of the collateral damage.

no1phD's photo
Thu 04/06/17 04:19 PM


I guess I am all that not curious I dont snoop so I wouldnt see the picture in the first place.

As for pictures of my Ex there are snap shots in Photo albums it is a part of life.


I'm the same, I wouldn't want to look. However, there a difference between having photos in a frame and having them in an album. If the photos of an ex are still out and about in frames. I getting out of there, they've still got open wounds and healing to be getting on with. I'm not staying to become part of the collateral damage.
..see.. and this is where my thinking is different to me having a picture of my ex-wife or ex-husband or whatever the case may be..
It all goes into making up who I am it all goes into my memories why would I want to hide away from my memories.. why would I not have them out in display in my house..
Just because I'm no longer with somebody doesn't mean I don't want to hold on to the memory of them or the photo of them.. it doesn't mean I'm not over them of course I'm over them.. but I don't just throw people away like that... disposable Society

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Thu 04/06/17 04:31 PM



I guess I am all that not curious I dont snoop so I wouldnt see the picture in the first place.

As for pictures of my Ex there are snap shots in Photo albums it is a part of life.


I'm the same, I wouldn't want to look. However, there a difference between having photos in a frame and having them in an album. If the photos of an ex are still out and about in frames. I getting out of there, they've still got open wounds and healing to be getting on with. I'm not staying to become part of the collateral damage.
..see.. and this is where my thinking is different to me having a picture of my ex-wife or ex-husband or whatever the case may be..
It all goes into making up who I am it all goes into my memories why would I want to hide away from my memories.. why would I not have them out in display in my house..
Just because I'm no longer with somebody doesn't mean I don't want to hold on to the memory of them or the photo of them.. it doesn't mean I'm not over them of course I'm over them.. but I don't just throw people away like that... disposable Society


If the picture is of the mother/father of their children then yes it might be acceptable. Past girlfriends/boyfriends no. Who many are you allowed to have, how about that summer when you had 7 different women on the go at the same time. Is it possible you've to much empty shelving space and choose to use it to taunt your current love interest?

no1phD's photo
Thu 04/06/17 08:07 PM




I guess I am all that not curious I dont snoop so I wouldnt see the picture in the first place.

As for pictures of my Ex there are snap shots in Photo albums it is a part of life.


I'm the same, I wouldn't want to look. However, there a difference between having photos in a frame and having them in an album. If the photos of an ex are still out and about in frames. I getting out of there, they've still got open wounds and healing to be getting on with. I'm not staying to become part of the collateral damage.
..see.. and this is where my thinking is different to me having a picture of my ex-wife or ex-husband or whatever the case may be..
It all goes into making up who I am it all goes into my memories why would I want to hide away from my memories.. why would I not have them out in display in my house..
Just because I'm no longer with somebody doesn't mean I don't want to hold on to the memory of them or the photo of them.. it doesn't mean I'm not over them of course I'm over them.. but I don't just throw people away like that... disposable Society


If the picture is of the mother/father of their children then yes it might be acceptable. Past girlfriends/boyfriends no. Who many are you allowed to have, how about that summer when you had 7 different women on the go at the same time. Is it possible you've to much empty shelving space and choose to use it to taunt your current love interest?
..well. obviously I'm talking about a picture of somebody that you spent a great deal of time with ..maybe had children with even..
Not a gallery of one night stands..nooo..
But yes.... this might be a little bit out of your .. depth..... but as always Keep On Keepin On...

SitkaRains's photo
Thu 04/06/17 08:53 PM


I guess I am all that not curious I dont snoop so I wouldnt see the picture in the first place.

As for pictures of my Ex there are snap shots in Photo albums it is a part of life.


I'm the same, I wouldn't want to look. However, there a difference between having photos in a frame and having them in an album. If the photos of an ex are still out and about in frames. I getting out of there, they've still got open wounds and healing to be getting on with. I'm not staying to become part of the collateral damage.

I rhink that depends... A lot of photos were still in frames til the kids were grown. When they left the house and I thought about it. They went into photo albums.

Good thing I wasnt dating then rofl

jacktrades's photo
Thu 04/06/17 11:08 PM
Of course like most of the others, I would peek.

singlemom1231's photo
Thu 04/06/17 11:15 PM
well we knew people changed, people move on... infact they are much better after they had their break ups or they end their relationship not Good.

no photo
Fri 04/07/17 12:36 AM
Edited by Unknow on Fri 04/07/17 12:54 AM





I guess I am all that not curious I dont snoop so I wouldnt see the picture in the first place.

As for pictures of my Ex there are snap shots in Photo albums it is a part of life.


I'm the same, I wouldn't want to look. However, there a difference between having photos in a frame and having them in an album. If the photos of an ex are still out and about in frames. I getting out of there, they've still got open wounds and healing to be getting on with. I'm not staying to become part of the collateral damage.
..see.. and this is where my thinking is different to me having a picture of my ex-wife or ex-husband or whatever the case may be..
It all goes into making up who I am it all goes into my memories why would I want to hide away from my memories.. why would I not have them out in display in my house..
Just because I'm no longer with somebody doesn't mean I don't want to hold on to the memory of them or the photo of them.. it doesn't mean I'm not over them of course I'm over them.. but I don't just throw people away like that... disposable Society


If the picture is of the mother/father of their children then yes it might be acceptable. Past girlfriends/boyfriends no. Who many are you allowed to have, how about that summer when you had 7 different women on the go at the same time. Is it possible you've to much empty shelving space and choose to use it to taunt your current love interest?
..well. obviously I'm talking about a picture of somebody that you spent a great deal of time with ..maybe had children with even..
Not a gallery of one night stands..nooo..
But yes.... this might be a little bit out of your .. depth..... but as always Keep On Keepin On...


Obviously??? So, I'm supposed to know exactly what you mean without you spelling it out. I'll bare that in mind when next you pick apart a reply of mine to try and make it sound sinister. As for depth, you don't know me so you're best advised to keep your ASSumptions to yourself.

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