Topic: Ladies wat do you look for in a relationship and age?
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Sat 04/22/17 09:41 AM
I personally think that distance is a major factor. Reason for this is if I am getting involved with someone who is geographically unavailable, and yet the conversation and interaction is very well received, how are we ever to meet if neither is ready to travel...... I'm not saying that it is not possible, but, realistically, not likely...... As far as age, my late wife was 15yr older than myself, and we had a wonderful life together. Age is only a number, it is the compatibility and respect that matters to me...... Honest communication is fundamental in establishing a real relationship. ✌ :blush:

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Sat 04/22/17 11:44 AM
Maturity and intelligence The lack of maturity and IQ is the mother of all issues.

darkbrown2u's photo
Sat 04/22/17 12:00 PM
40 miles

redheadedlady54's photo
Sat 04/22/17 02:20 PM
What I want in a relationship is someone who actually likes me for myself and who will be good to me. I don't ask for a lot from my partner but apparently it's more than any man is willing to give. I expect my partner to be honest, forthcoming and open. I don't expect him to tell me his every dark secret of course but I also don't want him to be passive/aggressive. Don't hold things in for a year and then blow up at me and let it out. My ex is like that.
I love people who have a good sense of humor and it would be so nice to be able to laugh with my partner.
As for dating, it would be great if a guy would actually take me out somewhere and not want to stay in all the time. One guy did take me out to eat but he expected ME to pay for his dinner. I paid for my own.
The other two guys I went out with wanted to get take-out. That's all and fine but not for the first date. I don't want anyone in my house if I don't know them.
Maybe I'm old but it seems to me that things are a lot different now than when I was a young woman. Men seem to want to bypass the dating part and go for the sex straight away.

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Sat 04/22/17 02:23 PM

Maturity and intelligence The lack of maturity and IQ is the mother of all issues.


You are spot on with this. Even though I prefer younger men, they are not all mature nor intelligent. I stopped seeing a guy because I felt like I was his second mother. He is very sweet, very honest and couldn't be an ******* if he tried but he is a man-child. I'm not talking about being young at heart either. This guy isn't stupid or anything but my god is he immature. I raised my son already and I wasn't about to raise another one.

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Sun 04/23/17 10:15 AM
I met a beautiful man that lives about 2 hours away. Don't know how when where, but he is worth trying the drive for now. But long term don't know.

I just started to date. I'm not looking for serious right now.
He is the youngest man I have ever dated. I'm glad I shot for a younger
guy. This could prove to be interesting. He is 48 I'm 43. Perfect.

He lives a little further than I would like, but if I don't swing
the bat how will I know. I may have a keeper. If it's a miss at least
I tried. OMG did I mention he is gorgeous!!! Lol

I am trying outside of the box. I am so glad I did. Never give up.
This dating men closer to my age thing is AWESOME!!!!

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Sun 04/23/17 10:22 AM

I met a beautiful man that lives about 2 hours away. Don't know how when where, but he is worth trying the drive for now. But long term don't know.

I just started to date. I'm not looking for serious right now.
He is the youngest man I have ever dated. I'm glad I shot for a younger
guy. This could prove to be interesting. He is 48 I'm 43. Perfect.

He lives a little further than I would like, but if I don't swing
the bat how will I know. I may have a keeper. If it's a miss at least
I tried. OMG did I mention he is gorgeous!!! Lol

I am trying outside of the box. I am so glad I did. Never give up.
This dating men closer to my age thing is AWESOME!!!!

:thumbsup: nice, good luck.

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Sun 04/23/17 10:28 AM

I met a beautiful man that lives about 2 hours away. Don't know how when where, but he is worth trying the drive for now. But long term don't know.

I just started to date. I'm not looking for serious right now.
He is the youngest man I have ever dated. I'm glad I shot for a younger
guy. This could prove to be interesting. He is 48 I'm 43. Perfect.

He lives a little further than I would like, but if I don't swing
the bat how will I know. I may have a keeper. If it's a miss at least
I tried. OMG did I mention he is gorgeous!!! Lol

I am trying outside of the box. I am so glad I did. Never give up.
This dating men closer to my age thing is AWESOME!!!!


That's awesome barbadogirl, I'm happy for you biggrin

fankit's photo
Sun 04/23/17 01:30 PM
hiii miss beautiful

NeonMidnight's photo
Fri 04/28/17 01:47 PM
a man with a great personality and only dates guys between the ages of 30 and 40

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Sat 04/29/17 04:55 AM
a relationship that makes each other grow to become better versions of themselves. sort of like the wind beneath each others wings flying free,easy and high

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Sat 04/29/17 05:18 AM
Hi

asalmahmudi's photo
Sun 05/07/17 04:17 PM

a man with a great personality and only dates guys between the ages of 30 and 40

asalmahmudi
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Klebokel's photo
Sun 05/07/17 04:37 PM
what do i look for? a man who could be like home to me wether he is just beside me or even if hes out of reach. distance thats not matter

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Sun 05/07/17 05:29 PM
im sayin

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Sun 05/07/17 05:29 PM
im sayin

Dawndavies's photo
Mon 05/08/17 01:56 PM
yh I think so

Dawndavies's photo
Mon 05/08/17 02:06 PM
just my kind of lady

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Mon 05/08/17 02:59 PM
God Fearing, Honest, Loyal, Mature.. any girl wants to his man :heart:

PacificStar48's photo
Mon 05/08/17 07:17 PM
Looking for...
Someone with traditional values, basic good manners, steadfast faith, financially responsible, and modest.

Distance is pretty much dependent on his ability to travel and relocate because I have done my share of that. And I am not getting serious about anyone I can't easily spend time with.

Age 58-68.