Just coming back after reconnecting on Facebook with my 1st love ,fron over 40 yrs ago.He is in a very compromising situation in NYC but will come west to Seattle for a visit,and I am looking forward to it.We have talked extensively for over 3months and it has been very good in tha respect ,so tho I could not imagine intimacy again with this wonderful man,I must out of Friendship,open my home to this lovely very talented man as a safe haven and pad from which to launch a new life.Bobbydodaday