Topic: Would you marry a foreign girl to be your wife? | |
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I would for money... What's it worth to ya? how much would it be?....I'll try to see if my piggy bank holds enough |
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Setting all the arguments about scammers and not being predudiced aside the reality is when you take people out of their "home" country, even if it is to a so called better environment it is still extteamly difficult and many of the women suffer terribly.
Often it destroys their family relationships, they live more or less socially internally exiled, and the cultural shock for both partners is usually enough to destroy the relationship in less time than it does to pay off the travel and legal expenses. Some times it lasts long enough to create a child that have to often be the primary person to meet all their Mother's needs because of social and language barriers. Unless the mother pulls the new spouse into a local surrogate culture but often that is not the easyiest environment for anyone. Many times these difficult or failed Relationships cause major depression,addictions, bankruptcy, neglected children, spouse abuse (both ways), and sadly suicide rather than cope with the " I told you so's.). |
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I say this from having immigrant children, years of being a Sponsor for foreign born women in the civilian and military community, and working in "welfare" service organizations that help the families after these "arrangements" fall apart.
What few people want to acknowledge is the extremely harsh predudice that exists towards immigrant people or the people that help them. And how often that prejudice makes them exploited. It is enough to break some of the toughest and or courageous people because it never really goes away. |
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All the best
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Well yes. Outside social stigma is irrelevant. what matters is if your extended families ie inlaws can accept you and the spouse. assuming ofcourse she isnt scamming me for that afore mentioned passport and tractor!!...but yes i would a woman is is a woman at the end of the day
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You guys are so prejudice! It is not all foreign girls need a visa! The majority of the American have never been outside US, so of course they don't have a passport. Many foreign girls are very high educated and come to US legally, for working in better jobs.
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You guys are so prejudice! It is not all foreign girls need a visa! The majority of the American have never been outside US, so of course they don't have a passport. Many foreign girls are very high educated and come to US legally, for working in better jobs. Sadly however many of their degrees and license's are worthless in the USA until they go through extremely expensive recertification. They often are paid less and slower to be promoted which is part of the discrimination that flows down on the entire family; including parents grandparents and other family including children. If it is a big closely knitted family it can be less dire than it sounds but if it is a small family where there is limited language ability it can be very difficult in times of high stress. |
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Well,marrying a foregn girl shouldn't be a problem because no matter where's in the world if th person ls you,go for her with all your heart.
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absolutely right
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absolutely right
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yes or no who knows **** happens in life
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well i gree but who knows it is worst for them or better ive seen lots of couples from different regions are living happly
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foreign or not foreign it all comes down to character and compatibility
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I would but all depends if we both like each other or not after talking to each first for a bit
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Why not as long as the foreigner is kind hearted and caring
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OFFCUZ YES YOU CAN...ITS ALL ABOUT PATIENCE MY DEAR
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TRUE TALK...i concur..
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true..
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never try so hard to find your one. he'll come in time
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